# Things I should remember but keep forgetting

1.  You follow the master, in the hope of becoming a master, but not a
   copy of the master. The apprentice-journeyman-master mindset makes
   us think what you learn and practice is what the master does, how
   they do it, how they get better at their trade, and even how they
   live. Wrong. In this Century, you don't get to be someone's
   apprentice for very long. Even if you start by doing what your
   mentor teaches you to do, in a few years you will likely be doing
   something related but completely different; in a decade you are
   likely to end up in another industry. Not to mention that the master
   inspiring you could be doing something you may never do in your
   life. You should learn from the master at a more meta level, on how
   they get better in *a* trade, how they evaluate *a piece of work*,
   how they build *a philosophy* from practices and experiences, and
   how they become better and better in *a* industry. Then you think,
   and develop your *own approaches* to life and work.

2.  It is sometimes admirable to pick the road less travelled. But it
   can be a sign of cowardice instead of courage. It is only noble when
   people avoid what you are going to do because it is significant, but
   difficult, and requires tradeoffs or sacrifice. It is cowardice if
   you think it is a good idea when you plunge in, only to find later
   that many people are already doing it because it is a good idea, and
   then you pivot to avoid competition. You should be grateful if you
   can pick up a few frenemies on your journey, because they will be
   your rival, companions and teachers, and they are proof that what
   you are going to do is worth it. If you run away from competition
   you also run away from significance.