date: Wed 25 Jun 2025 07:36:01 PM PDT
subj: sister gravely disabled conservatorship search
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Today I called as many attorneys as I could find and everyone of
them doesn't do conservatorship, even though their website says
they do.

My sister is gravely disabled right now and needs someone to pay
her bills and take care of her life. I'm the only one but I live
in another state.

Tough spot to be in, in this life. This morning I wake up with
an idea to use her attorney from 2022. I made the call to the
attorney office who helped her with our grandmother after she
passed away, but that attorney died shortly after dealing with
her case.

When I go to sleep at night all that is on my mind is I may have
seen my sister for the last time as her healthy self. I was
lucky enough to have a video call with her before she completely
lost her mind. That day she was feeling well.

The past year of her life was probably the happiest she had been
in most of her life. She was hanging out with neighbors and a
man she met, as well as his family. She was in love and becoming
part of his family. I think the time they were dating was 5
months and that was the best 5 months of her life.

She had decided to get the surgery to rid herself of the pain
she lived with for around 20 years. I don't think if she knew
what her life is like today she would have went through with the
surgery. I wonder if she knew the outcome today as a possible
risk. I can't imagine that being the case and not being
prepared for it.


Tomorrow I will call more attorneys to see if they can help. I
hope I don't have to file the papers myself. I've spent many
years in the court systems, and its a lot of work, and its
complicated.