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Date: 2022-07-04

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When I was a little kid, we’d have a cookout, with some miniature American flags for decoration, and there was a special tri-flavored ice cream from a local diary – bands of strawberry, vanilla, and blueberry – and I got to wave some sparklers around after it got dark enough, and then I was sent to bed. As I grew bigger, there were school pageants before the Fourth, and on that evening my family sometimes went to professionally done fireworks displays put on by one of the local municipalities or service clubs. And by the time I was in high school, we could see fireworks extravaganzas on TV, carefully timed to the music of John Phillip Sousa.

But Good Lord, when I went looking for some “Fourth of July poetry” for this morning’s MOT, I found an awful lot of truly awful poetry.

Until I stumbled on “Immigrant Picnic,” and it made me laugh.

I hope it makes you laugh too.

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Immigrant Picnic



by Gregory Djanikian



It's the Fourth of July, the flags

are painting the town,

the plastic forks and knives

are laid out like a parade.



And I'm grilling, I've got my apron,

I've got potato salad, macaroni, relish,

I've got a hat shaped

like the state of Pennsylvania.



I ask my father what's his pleasure

and he says, "Hot dog, medium rare,"

and then, "Hamburger, sure,

what's the big difference,"

as if he's really asking..



I put on hamburgers and hot dogs,

slice up the sour pickles and Bermudas,

uncap the condiments. The paper napkins

are fluttering away like lost messages.



"You're running around," my mother says,

"like a chicken with its head loose."



"Ma," I say, "you mean cut off,

loose and cut off being as far apart

as, say, son and daughter."



She gives me a quizzical look as though

I've been caught in some impropriety.

"I love you and your sister just the same," she says,

"Sure," my grandmother pipes in,

"you're both our children, so why worry?"



That's not the point I begin telling them,

and I'm comparing words to fish now,

like the ones in the sea at Port Said,

or like birds among the date palms by the Nile,

unrepentantly elusive, wild.



"Sonia," my father says to my mother,

"what the hell is he talking about?"

"He's on a ball," my mother says.



"That's roll!" I say, throwing up my hands,

"as in hot dog, hamburger, dinner roll...."



"And what about roll out the barrels?" my mother asks,

and my father claps his hands, "Why sure," he says,

"let's have some fun," and launches

into a polka, twirling my mother

around and around like the happiest top,



and my uncle is shaking his head, saying

"You could grow nuts listening to us,"



and I'm thinking of pistachios in the Sinai

burgeoning without end,

pecans in the South, the jumbled

flavor of them suddenly in my mouth,

wordless, confusing,

crowding out everything else.

“Immigrant Picnic” by Gregory Djanikian appeared in the July 1999 issue of Poetry magazine

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Gregory Djanikian was not known to me, so I went browsing through some of his other poetry, and found two more poems which seem appropriate for the Fourth of July.

Because they are a reminder that we are still “a nation of immigrants” and that is “as American as apple pie” and spaghetti, tacos, and chop suey; curry, challah, and couscous; or paprikash, tabouli, and lavash.

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Sailing to America



by Gregory Djanikian



Alexandria, 1956



The rugs had been rolled up and islands of them

Floated in the centers of every room,

And now, on the bare wood floors,

My sister and I were skimming among them

In the boats we’d made from newspaper,

Sheets of them pinned to each other,

Dhows, gondolas, clippers, arks.

There was a mule outside on the street

Braying under a load of figs, though mostly

There was quiet, a wind from the desert

Was putting the city to sleep,

But we were too far adrift, the air

Was scurfy and wet, the currents tricking

Our bows against reef and coral

And hulls shearing under the weight of cargo.

“Ahoy and belay!” I called to my sister,

“Avast, avast!” she yelled back from her rigging,

And neither of us knew what we were saying

But the words came to us as from a movie,

Cinemascopic, American. “Richard Widmark,”

I said. “Clark Gable, Bogie,” she said,

“Yo-ho-ho.” We had passed Cyprus

And now there was Crete or Sardinia

Maybe something larger further off.

The horizon was everywhere I turned,

The waters were becoming turgid,

They were roiling, weeks had passed.

“America, America, land-ho!” I yelled directionless.

“Gibraltar,” my sister said, “Heave to,”

And signalling a right, her arm straight out,

She turned and bravely set our course

North-by-northwest for the New World.

Did we arrive? Years later, yes.

By plane, suddenly. With suitcases

And something as hazy as a future.

The November sun was pale and far off,

The air was colder than we’d ever felt,

And already these were wonders to us

As much as snow would be or evergreens,

And it would take me a long time

Before I’d ever remember

Boats made of paper, islands of wool,

And my sister’s voice, as in a fog,

Calling out the hazards,

Leading me on, getting us there.

“Sailing to America” from Falling Deeply into America, © 1989 by Gregory Djanikian - Carnegie Mellon University Press

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A Brief History of Border Crossings



by Gregory Djanikian



Inevitable that it should happen:

the bus I’m on pulls into

any sleepy town on the border

between here and the paradise just beyond,

and the old anxiety comes back —

how the rarest Chinese vase I’ve never seen

will suddenly bulge out of my luggage,

how the prescription in my pocket for lozenges

is actually a summons for interrogation.



Was it not so many years ago, in Alexandria,

that the borders around us were slowly

shutting down like huge metal grates?

And somehow we were getting out,

the douanier with a gold tooth

looking though all our luggage,

eyeing me though I said nothing back,

repeated nothing a boy might overhear

in parlor or bedroom alcove.



And at nineteen, when I swore

allegiance to the republic

for which it stands, I held

the Certificate as if it were a lost

occult text, the paper an unearthly green

like the color of play money.



So is it any wonder that even signs

such as “Entering Texas” or

“Welcome to New York,” should shoot

a needle of paralysis up my spine,

like the heroin I’ve never carried,

certain it was there?



“A Brief History of Border Crossings” appeared in the April 1999 issue of Poetry magazine

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Gregory Djanikian (1949 - ) was born into an Armenian family in Alexandria, Egypt. He came to America with his family when he was eight years old. He was for many years the Director of Creative Writing at the University of Pennsylvania in Philadelphia. Honored by Poetry magazine with both the Eunice Tietjens Prize and their Friends of Literature Prize, Djanikian also won the Anahid Literary Award from the Armenian Center at Columbia University. His poetry collections include Sojourners of the In-Between, Dear Gravity, So I Will Till the Ground, Years Later, Falling Deeply into America, and The Man in the Middle.

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In memory of my friend Ani Dabat, another Armenian who came to America — from Beirut — with her two children, because she didn’t want them to accept the bombings as a normal part of life.

You will always be missed.

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