The Don Diebel "Succeed With Women" Newsletter
Issue for November 15, 1998
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Welcome to The Don Diebel "Succeed With Women" Newsletter -
Your source to succeeding with women and filling your life with love,
intimacy, and romance. Each weekly issue is dedicated to helping you
do better with the opposite sex, get more dates, improve your dating
relationships, overcome shyness, and most importantly help you meet,
attract, and seduce women. Also, I will keep you up-to-date on the
latest methods and techniques to score with women.
We are pleased that many new subscribers have recently joined us for
help in scoring with women. For those of you that are new readers,
I'd like to introduce myself. I'm Don Diebel, one of the nation's
leading experts on dating and relationships, guest speaker on several
TV and radio shows, featured in print interviews, dating consultant,
and have helped thousands of men win at the game of love with my
phenomenal best-sellers, "How to Pick Up Women in Discos," "The
Complete Guide to Meeting Women," "100 Places to Take a Date," The
Houston Entertainment and Dating Guide," "How to Pick Up Topless
Dancers" and "1001 Best Pick-Up Lines."
Also, I am President and owner of Gemini Publishing Co. which
specializes in books, cassettes, and videos on how to succeed with
women since 1978. Our website is located at:
http://www.getgirls.com
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1) "Tips of the Week" article for meeting, attracting, and seducing
women.
2) Four FREE chapters from the best-seller, "A Man's Guide to
Women."
3) FREE book on how to select a dating service.
4) Pick-Up Line of the Week
5) Article from our "Tips of the Week Archive" on how to score with
women.
6) Enter our contest for a FREE book on succeeding with women.
7) Four FREE chapters from, "The Complete Guide to Meeting
Women."
8) New products to help you score with women.
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"TIPS OF THE WEEK" FOR NOVEMBER 15, 1998
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How to Create Stronger and More Romantic Relationships With Single
Women
You have been dating a nice woman, and the two of you seem to feel at
ease with each other and enjoy being together. It feels right being
with her, but you have yet to touch, to hold hands, to exchange more
than a hug and a nominal kiss or two. Where do you go from here?
1. Talk. Set up lines of communication. Establish a rapport.
2. Share your past, your pain and disappointments as well as your
triumphs and joys.
3. Laugh together, cry together. Humor is healing, and tears are sacred.
4. Slowly and reverently peel back
the layers of mystery in each other.
Every revealed nuance, every secret desire, every confession of
weakness, every exploration of hope and admission of paralyzing fear
strengthens the bond between the two of you, helps you accept the
other as a human being, flawed but worthy of acceptance as a trusted
and intimate companion.
Share interests, activities, and hobbies:
1. Play games you both enjoy, board games, lawn games, tennis,
bowling, miniature golf, pool, etc.
2. Prepare home cooked meals for her, and volunteer to wash the dishes
when she cooks for you. Don't forget to praise her spaghetti sauce (made
from an old family recipe, no doubt).
3. Sing to her. Make up silly rhymes to tunes you know.
4. Tell her stories, true stories from your life and made up stories
from your imagination.
5. Write poems especially for her.
6. Read aloud favorite plays, each of you taking a part.
Develop customs and "traditions" unique to yourselves as a couple:
1. Celebrate the monthly anniversary of your first meeting with a
small party.
2. Give her little, inexpensive presents (stuffed animals, key chain
trinkets, bath soaps). The personal touch counts. Remember 'special'
dates, not just her birthday.
Build trust:
1. Be reliable.
2. Act honorably.
3. Treat her with respect.
4. Keep your word. Always.
Learn how to disagree:
1. Establish the 'rules of engagement', the ground rules for arguing.
There is a line you may not cross without causing permanent injury.
2. Be willing to compromise your differences (as distinct from your
principles). Making up after a fight can bring you closer than you
were before.
Get to know her family, and introduce her to your own:
1. Family background gives important clues to a person's character.
2. A long-term relationship is a bond between families, not just the
persons involved.
There comes that magic moment when you finally touch, when she
fiercely grasps your hand of her own free will, when you start to give her
the usual goodnight peck on the cheek and she turns her face to catch the
kiss full on her lips (and, oh, how soft and yielding and warm they are!).
This is a healing touch, an affirmative, giving
touch. It is a pledge of yearned for commitment, a seed cast upon the
waters of tomorrow.
Consider the process, the dynamic of how two people become one, a
couple. The two of you gradually grow closer, begin to have deep
feelings for one another, and to bond. Past a certain threshold, you
cease to think of the woman as someone you have been dating, instead
she becomes the other half of us. This is the point where commitment
enters the picture, commitment to the relationship and to the
happiness and well being of your partner. This is the critical moment when
you decide to share your life together.
Cautions: Since you are somewhat inexperienced in the realm of man-
woman relationships, you will blunder at first, learning by trial and
error, making painful mistakes. You force the pace, letting your
anxiety and impatience bruise the fragile trust between you. You let
personal insecurities drive you to acts of jealousy. You try to
change, or "remodel" her. Your stratagems to pull her closer, to take
possession of her -- drive her away. Sometimes, it seems as if all your
efforts are self-defeating...
Be prepared for the possibility that the relationship may never
"kindle". If such be the case, consider it 'training' for your next
one. Go on with your life. Meet new persons. Explore new
relationships.
Finally, recognize that even a close relationship may go sour. Danger
signs in a failing relationship include lack of respect between partners,
constant bickering, and, most telling of all, power and domination dramas.
If the two of you can no longer make each other laugh, give each other
comfort by a touch, and share intimate moments, then there is little hope
left. If your partner disparages and makes fun of you, there is not much
remaining to hold on to. You can no longer evade hard choices, and the
time has come to consider a
graceful exit.
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PICK-UP LINE OF THE WEEK
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"You know, if I could rewrite the alphabet, I would put U and I
together."
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ARTICLE FROM OUR "TIPS OF THE WEEK ARCHIVE"
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TIP #1 - Single women go on dates to have a good time, not to be
serious. Keep this in mind and never act serious on the first few
dates. If you try to get serious, sexual, and romantic too soon, you
will only drive women away.
TIP #2 - Add imagination and romance to your dates. Do things
slightly different than the norm. Instead of just having dinner at
your place, have a candlelit dinner with fresh flowers on the table.
Go to see classic films. Spend an afternoon at the museum. In other
words, try to set yourself apart from all of the other guys. It's
easy to tell what she is used to doing on dates - out to a movie, to
dinner, to a party. So avoid the same old thing, or add a slight
variation to what she is used to. She will remember it.
TIP #3 - End the date before she does. When you first start dating,
it is important to avoid that awkward time when it is getting late and she
finally has to announce that it is time for her to go home. When the
evening is still going well and still on an "up note," announce that you
"...hate to end the evening because you've had such a great time, but it is
getting late and..." This is going to surprise her because most guys hang
on until the bitter end hoping that by some miracle they will end up in bed
for some hot passionate sex with her.
By ending the date before she does, you:
1. Set yourself apart from other guys.
2. Continue to maintain control over her and the evening.
3. Make yourself hard to get.
4. Suggest that you aren't desperate for action, therefore there must be
other single girls in your life and she is going to have to work harder to
catch you.
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MONTHLY CONTEST TO WIN FREE BOOKS
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"Best Pick-Up Lines" Contest
Send us your best pick-up lines you use to meet single women. We'll
pick the best ones to publish on our web site (we will not publish
your name) and award the lucky winner any book listed in our catalog
at:
http://www.getgirls.com/catalog.htm absolutely FREE! Please send
your story by e-mail to
[email protected] or by snail mail to:
Attn: Contest Dept., Gemini Publishing Company, 14010 El Camino Real,
Suite 200, Houston, TX 77062 (don't forget to include your e-mail
address).
Be sure and visit:
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Guide to Meeting Women." This is probably the best book ever written
on how to meet, attract, date, and seduce hot & sexy beautiful single
women.
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Divided into four categories and titles, each of these full-length
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P.S - I promise that I will never sell or share your e-mail address
with anyone!
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