Safe Sex?
COPYRIGHT � by L. Tyler 1997
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P.O.Box 734, El Centro, CA 92244-0734
P.O.Box 620763, San Diego, CA 92162-0763
Dear reader, this essay/letter in my attempt to offer evidence and
reason to discredit the big lie that it is possible to have safe sex
with condoms or by other means that two people might try to
use to prevent transmission of sexually transmitted diseases like
HIV/AIDS. This essay/letter is not for any sanctified virgin
who never does anything that involves the exchange/mixing
of body fluids with another person. This is for anyone, believer
or non believer, disciple or deviant etc who is involved in any
activity that involvesl the exchange/mixing of body fluids with
another person, even in such an innocent manner as wet
kissing, tongue kissing or skin licking/sucking. Given the
statistics that the amount of sexual activity outside of marriage
for those who profess to be believers/disciples of the Anointed
King Jesus is not significantly less than those who are not such
believers/disciples, I address this essay/letter to anyone who
does not want to unwittingly become infected with a sexually
transmitted disease, like herpes or HIV/AIDS. If you cannot
handle, or are offended, frank talk about intimate sexual activity
and contact, then please don't read it, but I hope you escape the
fate of the ostrich who buried its head in the sand to escape the
pack of wild dogs. Liz is a correspondent of mine, and like me
she has had way too much sexual activity. The difference is that
I have chosen to let Jesus clean up and redeem my act, and she
hasn't. She is very influential, over the whole continent, so
please pray for her when she comes to mind. Feel free to delete
this or stop reading it any time you feel you should.
Toronto, Canada
Lusciously delicious Liz,
So good to see your picture. You are so beautiful and look so
delicious! It is hard to keep my mind on the matter at hand,
your mailing. Thanks so much for your papers on HIV/AIDS.
May I copy them and distribute them to my daughters
and the people I deal with about HIV/AIDS?
I love your color coding! The next best thing to
page numbers and it is much more attractive and
colorful!
Well here goes! On your hot pink paper you asked
for suggestions on how to get your word out better. I'm a
teacher and a problem solver so be patient with me,
okay? Why not get your own Web homepage on the
internet and have worldwide exposure? www.Delphi.com
and www.PlanetAll.com and www.mindspring.com all
have Web homepage options. Check out my web site at
http://www.etext.org/Relgious.texts/polyamory/
On your light blue paper you have the line "HOW
COME 'AIDS' ISN'T JUST A GAY DISEASE?" Technically
your answer is right, but the thought is incomplete.
You don't establish the fact that HIV is a virus, which
means that it can be spread like a virus, like Herpes etc.
You didn't show that gays may have it, but that bisexuals
carry the virus from the gays into the heterosexual
community, that intravenous drug needle sharers and
prostitutes are also the primary people with HIV/AIDS,
as well as the primary spreaders of the disease.
You sure know how to hurt an old fart's feelings! It
is as if you didn't even read my 5/97 letter (see below)
to you. Dang! Girl, what does it take to get
you to believe me? Well here we go again-------
On the back of your green page you have this line
">>>Want to continue living . . . . and you don't LIKE using
a CONDOM?" You say that avoiding penetrative
intercourse (vaginal, oral or anal), and using a condom is
protection in the event of any genital-to-genital contact.
Come on Liz, are your going to leave it at that? Is
that all you are going to tell them?
Liz, beautiful Liz, wonderful Liz you know better
than that! You know that the danger is contact of body fluids
containing blood or infected with HIV/AIDS, contact of
those fluids with any opening in your skin or into your
body. When one of my ex's squeezed my phallus, ran her finger
over the opening of my urethra and licked that finger
with her tongue saying "Yummy!", she had not been
"penetrated" and there was no "genital-to-genital" contact
but if I had HIV/AIDS and she had gum disease
(peridontitis or gingivitis = when you brush your teeth
you see some blood in your spit/saliva), chapped lips, a
scratch on the inside of her mouth, or a sore throat then
she GOT IT, READY OR NOT!!!
If all he does is massage her clitoris and labia,
without penetration, and when she begins to secrete her
love juice, and if HIV/AIDS is in her juice, her HIV/AIDS
will enter his body through the scratch he has on his
hand from the staple on which he scraped himself at
work a few hours before, or through the break in his too dry
skin from using industrial cleansers to degrease his hands
at work a few hours earlier, or through the tiny hole in
tip of his finger where he touched one of the thorns on
the stem of one of the dozen of roses he brought her for
their evening together. And the whole picture could
be turned around where he has the HIV/AIDS and
passes it through the breaks in his skin listed above
into her urethra, or any inflammation/sore/scratch of
her labia!
He could have three condoms on to protect
himself against her HIV/AIDS while they make love
and she rides his penis, coating his testicles and crotch
with her love juices that are flowing out of her body-
--- carrying the HIV passed the condoms to the
scratch/rash/open pimple/sore on his testicles or in
his crotch, or the scraped hemorrhoid on his anus.
No condom can protect him if she has a
squirting orgasm that bathes his testicles, crotch,
anus and but with her infected juices! And then
turn it around---He has the virus and she puts the
condoms on him to protect her from his virus, but
when she takes him deep her exposed vagina rubs
hard against the scratch/sore/rash he has on his
testicles or at the base of his phallus ( she can't
see it because of his hairs)-----right where she
had unknowingly scratched her vagina (with a jagged
fingernail) while douching just before the date ---
and the virus passes from his invisibly blood-
oozing scratch/sore/rash into her nearly invisible
vaginal scratch. No penetration, no genital- to-
genital contact but their biospheres have merged and
now they both have HIV/AIDS and have begun, as they
come down from their blissful orgasms, their slow but
sure passage into an incredibly painful, hideous and
disfiguring dying process that will steal their future,
kill their unborn children, bereave their parents who
love them so much, take them from their children
that depend on and love them so much, separate
them from the comrades and companions who
count on them for the filling of their sails and to be
their bridges over troubled waters, to be the friend
that they could lean on and not be turned away------
---Oh God!!!! What a grief!!! What tragedy!!
"Daddy, Daddy, why are you and mummy crying?" How do
they tell their little one that daddy got higher/drunker at
the office party than he had planned on and wet kissed a
buddy's girl---with his chapped lips, with the little nick
at the edge of his lip from shaving just an hour before,
with the tiny pimple under his lower lip that he had
popped while shaving----such kissing he wouldn't have
done if sober? How do they tell their loved ones that
when he saw her the next day she had a little red sore on
her lip that her lipstick and his blurred eyes had missed
the night before? How do they tell their parents that a
week later his upset, heart broken, nervous and
profoundly apologetic friend informs him that he and his
girl had just found out that she, his girl, had HIV/AIDS
and they had just found out that the sore on her lip was a
symptom? And the Grim Reaper, the Breaker of
Hearts, that bitter enemy Death, reaps our loved ones
from all around us. If only it were a quick death!!!
The lingering agony and the transformation of the
beautiful people we once knew into disfigured,
hideous or deformed or incompetent beings, it is a
nightmare that is unwelcome and that lasts much
too long for all concerned.
You don't believe Dr.Lorraine Day MD. and her
information about HIV/AIDS?
That the FDA documented a 20% failure rate for latex
condoms when tested on an artificial penis with no
motion? That the County Health Departments of Southern
California declare that their population experiences a 17%
failure rate? That Planned Parenthood discourages the
use of latex condoms because of their 12% failure rate in
preventing pregnancy, with the sperm being 100 times
larger than the HIV?
Fine------then conduct your own tests. Go to a surgical supply
outlet and buy 6 latex surgical gloves. Then buy 6 of the best
latex condoms you can find. Next inflate, to twice their normal
size, three of the surgical gloves with air like a balloon and tie
them to keep the inflating air in them, and inflate three
of the condoms in the same way. Next fill three latex gloves
with egg white, then hold the condom opening over the
fawcet and hold it tight filling it with warm colored water
until it is almost twice the original size, and do the same
with three of the latex condoms. Check them an hour later,
several hours later, the next day and see for yourself how many
air and water molecules, virus size, have leaked out. Let your
eyes persuade you. If there is even a reduction in diameter of
only a quarter of an inch, do you realize how many thousands of
air/water molecules, virus size, have passed through the latex?
Do you realize how many HIV could have passed through
them in the same manner?
On your pastel sheet you have "**There is a 100%
sure way of avoiding AIDS thru sex." Beloved Liz, you
use terms that the lay reader won't understand, "non-
infected mutually faithful monogamous relationship".
The average high school grad in the United States would
not understand half of that phrase! Got to break it down,
baby! Something like "First of all make sure and your
sexual partner and you are not infected, even if you have
to wait a year before having sex involving body fluids!
(Fat chance of pulling that off even though HIV tests are
98% accurate after 6 months, 100% accurate after a year).
Now during that year, make sure you and your partner
have no sex involving contact with body fluids with
anyone else besides each other. Then when you have got
your results back after the year's wait, and you are both
not infected, then you solemnly covenant by all that is
meaningful to both of you that you will have sex only
with each other, not with anybody else. And then you
keep those promises for the rest of your relationship,
and you have no sex involving body fluids with anyone
else for the duration of the relationship."
Now that's one way to put it that they might
understand, but you and I know that since HIV/AIDS
have been passed between soccer and basketball
players and professional boxers when they have
collided/hit breaking their skin and releasing blood in the
process-----since it can be passed by breast
secretions, by bloody noses, menstrual secretions, by
one love biting another and breaking the skin----in
our impatient society THE TRUTH IS THAT YOU HAVE TO BE
PREPARED TO DIE WITH OR DIE FROM YOUR LOVER ANY
TIME YOU HAVE ANY SEX THAT INVOLVES CONTACT
WITH ANY BODY FLUIDS, SINCE THOSE BODY FLUIDS CAN
CONTAIN MICROSCOPIC/INVISIBLE BLOOD CELLS/FLUIDS.
You make that point on the back of you pastel pink sheet.
You don't really deal with the possible peril in body
fluids until you get to the bottom of the front of you gray
sheet----AND THEN ONLY ONE LINE????????!?!?!
What is this at the bottom of the back of your
pastel pink page and near the top front of your pastel
yellow sheet? Come on Liz! Tell it straight, girl! You
know that there is no condom lubricant that can kill HIV
without doing serious harm to the woman! There is no
Clorox/Lysol lubricant that can be used with condom to
kill any HIV in the body fluids. Check it out! No
spermicide producer will guarantee that their spermicide
kills HIV, with FDA confirmation! You don't want to
mislead them and give them a false confidence, right?
On the back of the gray sheet, "WOMEN & 'AIDS'"---
-----Why not give them the odds of surviving "safer
sexual practices"? Do you think they would really feel
that much safer if they knew that they had an 83%
chance of not getting HIV/AIDS using the best latex
condoms? Would you want to fly in an airplane that
told you in advance that statistically 17% of their passengers die
during the trip? Would you take a holiday cruise on a
"Love Boat" that stated up front that only 83% of their
passengers would survive the trip? Would you take yourself
and your loved one to a restaurant that had a warning at the
bottom of the menu that only 17% of their diners die from
eating their food? Would you buy and use a car for you and
your loved ones if the manufacturer told you up front that they
are proud to inform you that only 17% of their customers die
using the product while a whopping 83% survive------well at
least for a while.
What do I mean by that? Some of the 83% who survived
that flight/cruise/dinner/drive, some of them will be in the 17%
who don't survive on the next flight/cruise/dinner/drive. Yet
more of that original 83% will be in the 17% who don't survive
a subsequent flight/cruise/diner/drive. Statistically, after
fifty flights/cruises/diners/drives, all of the original surviving
83%, those who survived the first flight/cruise/drive, all
of them would have made it into the doomed group of
17% that don't make it. A healthy and passionate person
could have between 50 and a150 sexual fluid exhanges a
year (one to three per week). Even if they were among
the 83% that survived the first encounter, statistically
they would be infected by the end of the year even if
they doubled or tripled the condoms.
* Statistically, after fifty sexual experiences
involving infected body fluids and condoms--------
* all of those who were among the 83% who
survived the first sexual experience involving
infected body fluids by using good condoms well,--
* all of them would have made it into 17% group that
became HIV infected experiencing "condom user
failure" either by misuse of of the condom, a false
trust in the condom, or a manufacture's defect in
the condom----which you will never live long
enough to prove.
Lovemaking today? Take all the tests and
precautions possible, enjoy it to the fullest and richest,
then be prepared to die with or from your lover.
The flip side is yours ABOUT SWINGERS at the bottom of
the pastel yellow sheet,"Someone has said of SWINGERS that
the ONLY WAY their lifestyle today could possibly make sense
at all IS IF THEY DON'T INTEND TO BE ALIVE VERY LONG!"
THE CASE AGAINST CONDOMS RESTATED: Since your
many friends can expose you to AIDS I really want to share some
information with you. It was published in a book by Dr.
Lorraine Day, MD., who sat on the AIDS protocol panel for
medical procedures and I also have a tape of part of one her
presentations. Let me know if you want a copy of the tapes
She is quite upset at the callous dishonesty of the government
and health community, especially doctors, surgeons and the
CDC. She cites cases and studies that show that HIV/AIDS can
be passed in the following ways not commonly known, only a
partial list:
1. According to the doctor at the San Diego County Health
Department, there is a 17% user failure rate of condoms in
Southern California. That means 17% of the condoms used
failed to protect their users. Condoms leak or fail 22% of the
time according to the Federal DA. The tests conducted by the
government used a NONMOVING machine to test the
condoms. Government sex apparently doesn't involve motion!
Is anyone surprised? So you can imagine what the condom
failure rate is when you move, especially the vigorous humping
and pumping movements you've experienced with hard
dicks in your wonderful passion pit. Motion alone, with its
stretching of the condom, opening the pores of the condom,
increases the failure rate up over 33%.. That's right, one out of
every three, or every third time. That is worthless protection,
especially for those of us who have several orgasms in one
session. I wouldn't risk my life on something that fails
every third time. Even if you put three condoms on the guy's
penis, if all three of those condoms are a part of that 33% failure
group, then they will all leak enough to expose you to
HIV/AIDS.
If you called up Planned Parenthood and told them you wanted
to use condoms to keep you from getting pregnant, they would
quickly inform you that condoms fail to prevent pregnancy in
about 12-15% of the cases, one out of every six/seven. They will
discourage you from relying on condoms to keep from getting
pregnant because they fail so often. Well check this out! A
sperm is 100 times bigger than the HIV/AIDS virus. It
is 100 times easier for the HIV/AIDS virus to get passed the
condom than it is for the sperm. So if they wont recommend
condoms to prevent pregnancy, then why do they recommend
condoms to prevent HIV/AIDS?
And you and I both know how little protection condoms give.
If he did get off a good load of sperm into his condom in you,
your vagina is holding him tight and he keeps on pumping
because he doesn't want to quit, it would be so easy for your tight
vagina to squeeze some of the sperm all the way
back up the condom and out over the ring into your
vulva/vagina, especially if the tip of his penis were pressing
against your cervix with each thrust, squeezing the sperm in the
condom's sperm pocket so that it begins to move back along the
condom. Numerous passionate thrusts would pass his sperm
and its blood from your labia right into your vagina, perhaps
even up to your cervix. This would also happen during oral sex
if his penis squeezed the sperm pocket (at the end of
the condom) by pressing it firmly against the back of your throat
or your tongue, causing the sperm to begin to move toward the
opening of the condom.
It could happen if you were jacking him off, with him wearing a
condom, especially if you excited him by pressing his dick's head
and rubbing his urethra opening. This would spread sperm all
over the head of his penis even if you didn't squeeze the sperm
pocket. Each downward stroke would move his love juices
closer and closer to the condom opening. Once out of the
condom the show could be over for the uninfected. Do you
doubt this?
Test the idea using Betadine (half tsp. Betadine/Iodine and
half tsp. of mineral oil), or food dye (half tsp. in half tsp. egg
white) or a colored jello mix (half tsp. jello mix and half mineral
oil). Next time you are with your lover and he agrees to test it,
put one of these mixes in the condom sperm pocket, then with
him in a position with his penis pointing down (so the mix won
't drain out of the sperm pocket) put the condom on him and
then begin the festivities. After it is all over, use a white paper
towel to clean up and see how much of the dye came out in the
situations described above. Even with Betadine, you would need
a white towel because it temporarily stains the skin brown so it
wouldn't show up on a well tanned or brown skinned person.
If your genital juices (which always contain blood) are really
flowing or you have a juicy orgasm that squirts all over him,
then he has some of your precious blood all over him. If he has
any scratch, pimple or bruise, your blood mingles. No matter
how careful he is taking off the condom, which is covered with
your wonderful juices, he still couldn't keep some of your juices
from getting on his penis --- and as soon as his penis went limp
(around you? I doubt it!) it would rest against his testicles which
would be covered with your juices so your juices and blood
would mingle then. Even if he stood in a hot high pressure
shower soaping up and washing before he removed the
condom, it would still be so easy to be exposed.
Precious Liz and girls, it would break my heart to think of you
being disfigured and killed by AIDS. AIDS is known to kill some
by destroying their mind and they go insane before they die.
Some have got terrible brain tumors the size of ping pong balls
that make their heads all bumpy. Some have had terrible
running sores all over their skin like leprosy. Some get terribly
painful cancers. PLEASE BE EVER SO CAREFUL! REALLY
KNOW YOUR PARTNERS AND EXCHANGE AIDS TESTS
often. Remember you can have AIDS and be contagious and it
might not show up in your blood for up to five years, especially
if it is a new strain for which they have no test. To have sex
with someone today means that you must be willing to risk
death for the experience, or for the person you are loving.
May 1997
Dear Gloriously Beautiful Liz,
One main reason I'm writing is that I want you to be around and
beautiful for a long time. I'm really concerned about you
coming down with HIV/AIDS and dying one of those terrible
and hideous deaths that can go with AIDS. Please consider the
following.
I know you are intelligent, so let's talk about it. You know as
well as I that a person can have HIV/AIDS, even be contagious,
but the HIV/AIDS doesn't show up on the tests for months,
even years sometimes (if it is a new strain for which there is not
test), as the virus goes underground and hides out in the body
for its own purposes. A person can be tested for HIV/AIDS in
the morning, and test free of it, and have a hot date that very
night during which HIV/AIDS is transferred during sex.
Genital warts are so small, that often you can't even see them.
Even if you take a magnifying glass, are you going to carefully
examine each sexual partner for genital warts before making
love with them? I doubt it, because most of them wouldn't let
you. Yet genital warts causes cervical cancer in so many
American women that it is second only to breast cancer as a
leading killer of American women. To have genital
warts means that you have to have cervical exams and pap
smears every year, and in some cases every six months, to check
for cancer.
Chlamydia has no symptoms that can be seen on the outside of
the body, but when it is finished with a woman's uterus and
fallopian tubes, she'll never have a baby and might need a
hysterectomy. And then there are all of the other STD's
(sexually transmitted diseases) that have no visible symptoms
for the first week or so. But what I wish you would
consider is the following about HIV/AIDS.
1. Kissing, especially tongue kissing, can pass aids because of
blood in the saliva, blood from gingivitis or peridontitis, blood
from brushing your teeth, from chewing gum or roughage like
salads or granola. So when your lover wants to "eat" you and
lick/suck your clitoris and vagina, he is getting the bruise blood
in your vaginal fluids and he is putting into you the blood from
his saliva. There is just as much blood exchange as when his
penis is in your vulva/vagina. The federal government has
issued a health warning to all nurseries and preschools
that HIV/AIDS can be and has been passed by human bites and
teeth scratches.
2. Kissing/licking skin that is bruised or scratched even
microscopically can pass HIV since that allows blood traces do be
on the skin and mixed with sweat. If he sucks/licks/nibbles your
nipples so hard they bruise and ooze blood or if you had a
pimple or scratch on or around your face or vulva/vagina that
hadn't healed then the blood exchange takes place as the
blood in his saliva or seminal fluid mixes with yours on your
skin.
3. Genital fluids always contain traces of blood so they can always
carry AIDS. So you get his blood whenever you lick/kiss/suck
his penis or put it in your flower, when he "eats" your
vulva/vagina, when he tongue kisses your vulva/vagina.
4. Milk from a woman's breast can contain traces of blood
especially if the nipple is nibbled/sucked hard enough to bruise
or microscopically tear the skin. If he has a beard, his beard
alone could be enough to bruise or scratch your skin/nipple and
let microscopic blood pass through.
5. Bone and organ transplants can pass HIV because they all carry
blood and are nourished by blood.
6. Anal fluids and material almost always carry traces of blood
because of dietary roughage or the inflammation caused by anal
intercourse, even if they precede anal sex with six enemas (3
water and 3 mineral oil). All the stuff said about vagina/vulva
loving with condoms is the same about anal/anus loving with
condoms.
Why do I believe that I should have sex (genitals and breasts)
only with the woman who has maritally committed to me as my
wife? Because I have had so many incredible and awesome
miracles happen in my life that it is impossible for me not to
believe that Jesus is God revealed in a body, risen from death
and living forever, and loving me and all His children forever.
I love Him because He first loved me, as follows:
By the age of twelve (just finished seventh grade) I was almost 5'
10" tall and weighed about 140 lbs. and I had a pretty bad record
in the community. I had a "D" average for grades K - 6. I was
spanked at least each month by the principal for misconduct and
I was either suspended or expelled each semester starting with
the fourth grade through the sixth grade. In the seventh grade I
had a "C-" average with a lot of "D's" in conduct and I was
getting into trouble with the girls.
I had been kicked out of my church's youth group because I kept
on breaking up the meetings by goofing off and clowning
around. I believed in God and the Bible, but I sure didn't know
Him personally and I figured He was unhappy with me like
everybody else. I figured, at 12, that there was no Love in the
world, that every body only had user unfriendly conditional
love, selfish love, and I decided I didn't want to live in a world
where there was no Love. I didn't believe there was any Love
on earth and for sure I didn't believe that my mom and dad
loved me. My mom was so desperate to salvage her first born
son that she decided to force me to go to the church's September
Palomar camp in hope of a miracle. On the way to Palomar on
the church bus, I decided that since there was no Love on earth, I
would either jump off Laurel St. Bridge in Balboa Park or join
the local street and motorcycle gang, drinking, smoking
marijuana and fooling around with the girls until I got killed
like some I knew.
That night at camp I saw people doing something I had never
seen before, consistently and sincerely loving on each other and
joyful. I wanted what they had desperately so I decided I would
imitate them so maybe I could fit and they would accept me into
their joyful and loving society. I knew what they had was real
when I got up that next freezing morning on Mt. Palomar,
walked into the men's room and saw guys really joyful and
really loving each other, heart to heart and eye to eye. All the
more I decided that I wanted what they had and tried to imitate
them so I could at least be accepted by them, if I couldn't have
what they had.
On a noon hike that Saturday I was hanging out on the edge of
the group, trying to fit in and catch what they had. I tripped over
a Manzanita root and meant to say "shoot" but said "sheet"
instead, and said it loud enough for THEM to hear. I knew that
"sheet" was "shit" with a Mexican accent to THEM and I felt I
had totally blown my cover and that THEY all now knew that I
wasn't really one of them, but a faker. I blew up over that
Manzanita root, kicking it and hitting the bush while verbally
overflowing with stuff like "Doggone it! What's wrong with me!
I can't do anything right! I always mess up! Just about the time I
think I got it right, then I mess up! What the heck is wrong with
me!"
Now I don't know if she was an angel or not. I never saw her
before or after that encounter with the bush. I never got her
name. Later when I tried to figure out who she was, I thought
that maybe it was a young lady at church who looked a lot like
her, but she denied that it was her. Well whoever she was, she
came gently over to me as I was kicking the root and hitting the
tree and verbally dumping. She quietly stood beside me and
asked me if I would like to know why I do things like I was
doing, why I mess up. Well you know that I wanted to know
that, because I was sick and tired of messing up, especially after
messing up in the presence of the first real joyful and loving
people I ever knew. So she asked me to sit down on a big rock
over looking Don Valley on Palomar Mt. and she proceeded to
explain to me why I messed and how Jesus could still Love a
jerk like me. For the next three hours she showed me, gently
and patiently, how and why Jesus Loved me.
I believed Jesus was real, but I sure didn't think that He Loved
me. The proof that persuaded me that God not only could but
actually did Love me was that Christ died for me. I could argue
with most other points, but I couldn't deny that Jesus died.
Even unbelievers believed Jesus lived and died. To me that was
a historical fact that few disputed. So when I saw that I had solid
historical evidence that Jesus died, I was ready to seriously
consider that just maybe He Loved me enough to really die for
me. I respected and believed the Bible, so when she showed me
book after book, chapter after chapter, verse after verse that
plainly stated that the reason Jesus died (that solid historical
fact), was because God so Loved me and the world and because
He wanted to Love me as Father, as Shepherd, as King, as
Deliverer in a very intimate and personal relationship, - - - -
my eyes began to see, my mind to understand my heart wanted
that Love. When she showed me why He let them kill Him,
that it was His choice, that He died to take my place in the court
of Divine Justice------- well she had me. I couldn't deny that he
died, and she persuaded that God so Loved me that He sent His
only begotten Son to die in my place so that I could be His child
------- Eureka! Yahoo! I had discovered the Love I was looking
for, a Love that I could live for, a Love to give my life to and
for. I already believed that He rose from the dead and was
coming back.
Now I could have a relationship with the GOD who was Love.
I believed her, accepted Him and got all excited. I told her that I
had to check all of this out with the youth sponsor, Chuck Hill,
to make sure that all that she told me was right on. If she were
an angel, then I can see why I had to check it out with Chuck,
because the Bible makes it plain that soul-winning is the work,
not of angels, but of the Spirit and his human servants. After
Chuck confirmed everything the woman had told me, I thanked
him and went up the other hill side to pray my prayer of
thanks, believing, receiving and trusting Jesus as my God and
Saviour. I was such a babe I didn't realize that I had been born
again as soon as I talked to Chuck, because I believed and had
faith in Jesus and His Word as soon a Chuck confirmed it all. I
believed and was born again even before I made my big formal
acceptance prayer.
Talk about a radical life change! Within a month of my 8th grade
year (Oct. or Nov.) my grades averaged "B", I was a leader in my
church youth group, my school's Bible club (the girls had a hard
time believing I had changed), and I determined to do what I
could do for my messed up family, especially my mom and dad.
I don't know if that young lady was an angel, but I never saw her
again at that camp after that three hour talk. I never saw her
again anywhere at anytime. Nobody else knew about her. But
God used her to keep me from jumping off the Laurel St. bridge
or dying with the street and motorcycle gangsters, perhaps so I
could tell you that He wants to pour out His unselfishly
compassionate cherishing on you too, making you
His forever child.
Thanking God for your awesome intelligent beauty,
Tyler
What are the other reasons I believe one should have sexual
intimacy with his/her marital partner?
* 1 Corinthians 5: 1 � Everywhere [it is] reported [that there
is] FORNICATION [sexual breast/vagina activity outside of a
Biblical marriage] among you,--------------
Ezekiel 23: 3 And they FORNICATED in Egypt; they
whored [FORNICATED] in their youth, their breasts
were handled, and there their virgin nipples were
worked>1. . . . . 4 And their names [were] Oholah, the
oldest, and Oholibah, her sister. And they were Mine, and
they bore sons and daughters. And their names: Samaria
[is] Oholah, and Jerusalem [is] Oholibah. 8 Nor did she
leave her FORNICATIONS from Egypt. For in her
youth they lay with [had vulva sex] her, and they
worked her virgin nipples>2. , and poured their
fornications on her. 9 Therefore I have given her into
the hand of her lovers, into the hand of the Assyrians on
whom she lusted. 10 They uncovered her nakedness
[vulva]. . . 17 And the Babylonians came to her into the
bed of love [making], and they defiled her with sex-sin.
And she was defiled with them, and her mind was
alienated from them. 18 So she uncovered her sex-sin
and uncovered her nakedness [vulva]. And My soul
was alienated from her just as My soul was alienated
from her sister.. . . 20 And she lusted on [desired
the forbidden with] her lovers, whose flesh
[penis] is like the flesh [penis] of asses and whose
issue [ejaculation is like] the issue [ejaculation] of
horses. 21 So you longed for the wickedness of
your youth, when the Egyptians worked your
nipples, for the sake of the breasts of your
youth>3. .]
* (1 Corinth. 5:1 continued) and such fornication as is
not named among the nations, so AS ONE TO
[SEXUALLY] HAVE [HIS] FATHER'S WIFE. 2 And you
are puffed up, and have not rather mourned, SO THAT
HE WHO HAS DONE THIS DEED MAY BE TAKEN
FROM AMONG YOU. 3 For as being absent in body but
present in spirit, I indeed have judged already [as though
I were] present [concerning] him who worked out this
thing; 4 IN THE NAME OF OUR LORD JESUS CHRIST,
WHEN YOU ARE GATHERED TOGETHER, WITH MY
SPIRIT; ALSO, WITH THE POWER OF OUR LORD
JESUS CHRIST; 5 to deliver such a one to Satan FOR THE
DESTRUCTION OF THE FLESH, SO THAT THE SPIRIT
MAY BE SAVED IN THE DAY OF THE LORD JESUS
[when Jesus returns].
* 1 Cor. 5: 9 � I wrote to you in the letter NOT TO
ASSOCIATE INTIMATELY WITH FORNICATORS
(those who do breasts/vulvas outside of their own
marriage) 10 yet not altogether with the fornicators of
this world, or with the covetous [not content with what
God has provided], or extortioners, or with idolaters
[people who worship/serve/obey something else besides
Jesus]; for then you must go out of the world. 11 But now
I have written to you NOT TO ASSOCIATE
INTIMATELY, IF ANY MAN CALLED A BROTHER [OR
SISTER and is] either a fornicator, or covetous, or an
idolater, or a reviler [one who abuses others verbally
with insults, ridicule, sarcasm, foul language and
demeaning terms], or a drunkard [addict], or an
extortioner; WITH SUCH A ONE NOT TO EAT.
Romans 1:26 For this cause God gave them up unto vile
affections : for even their women did change <3337> (5656) the
natural use into that which is against nature :
3337 metallasso {met-al-las'-so}1) to exchange, change
5656 Tense - Aorist Voice - Active Mood - Indicative
This means that once and for all they exhanged or changed their
natural use for the unnatural, which for sure MEANS HAVING
SEX WITH ANIMALS (LEV. 18) AND INCLUDES
HOMOSEXUALITY AND LESBIANISM. For sure it plainly
states that if a woman once and for all decides to exchange
heterosexuality for lesbianism in her life, quitting sexual
relations with men, then she is in a clear and explicit sin. What
about bisexuality? The key is the use of "likewise" in Rom. 1:27.
Strong's 3668 homoios adv; Strong and Thayer render it
as: 1) likewise, equally, in the same way
Arndt&Gingrich:likewise, so, similarly, in the same way
Run verses 27 and 26 and it clarifies what God is saying about
lesbianism.
Paraphrased: HAVING LEFT>* THE GOD DESIGNED/MADE
PHYSIOLOGICAL/BIOLOGICAL>1 FUNCTIONS/USE>2 OF
THE FEMALE, the males were inflamed in their desire for that
which is forbidden towards one another, MALES IN/WITH/BY
MALES WORKING/DOING/PERFORMING>3 GENITALS>4
and receiving in themselves the recompense which was fit for
their error.
LIKEWISE/SO/EQUALLY/SIMILARLY/IN THE SAME WAY
their females exchanged natural sex relations for those that are
contrary>5 to God's design for God gave them up to disgraceful
passions because the people changed the truth of God into a
falsehood . . "
That would mean then that (Paraphrased) having left the God
designed/made/biological function/use of the male, THE
FEMALES WERE INFLAMED IN THEIR DESIRE FOR THAT
WHICH IS FORBIDDEN TOWARDS ON ANOTHER, FEMALES
IN/WITH/BY FEMALES WORKING/DOING/PERFORMING
[THEIR] GENITALS and receiving in themselves the
recompense which was fit for their error.
* 1 Cor. 6: 9 � Do you not know that THE
UNRIGHTEOUS SHALL NOT INHERIT [THE]
KINGDOM OF GOD? Do not be deceived; neither
FORNICATORS [(those who do breasts/vulva outside of
their own marriage) ] ,
NOR idolaters [those who have other Gods than Jesus],
NOR ADULTERERS [those who sexually have someone
else's mate],
NOR ABUSERS [CATAMITES, THOSE (BOYS/MALES)
WHO LET THEMSELVES BE USED HOMOSEXUALLY
[INCLUDING LESBIAN/BI WOMEN]>6.9 ],
NOR [MALE] HOMOSEXUALS [SODOMITES], 10 nor
thieves,
NOR covetous [those not content with what God has
provided],
NOR drunkards [addicts], nor revilers [verbal abusers],
nor extortioners,
shall inherit [the] kingdom of God. 11 And such were
some of you. But you are washed, but you are
sanctified, but you are justified in the name of the
Lord Jesus, and by the Spirit of our God.
Precious Reader, do you know exactly where you stand with the
God and Creator of the universe? Have you asked Him to be
your Father in the Heavens? Have you believed/trusted/
relied/depended on the Lord/King Jesus Christ ---the God
anointed Saviour King of Israel ----to save you from your faults,
failures and mistakes?
Salvation from personal faults/failures/mistakes belongs to the
poor in spirit. Matt. 5:3 says, "Blessed are the poor in spirit, for
theirs is the kingdom of heaven." If you recognize that you are
spiritually destitute---totally incapable of deserving or earning
salvation from your errors in any way, you are poor in spirit--
you are humble. The poor in spirit, the humble, understand
that they are sinners, totally impotent to please or to serve God.
To acknowledge that you are a sinner unable to save yourself is
humility. Christ Jesus came into the world to save sinners (1
Tim. 1:15). Isaiah said, "When You make His soul an offering
for sin, He shall see [His] seed. He shall prolong [His] days and
the pleasure of the Lord shall prosper in His hand. He shall see
the distressing travail of His soul, and be satisfied. By His
knowledge My righteous Servant shall justify many, for He shall
bear their iniquities."
Poverty of spirit (humility) is interwoven in the act of
repentance, the life-altering change of mind about you, your sin
and God. When you repent (change your mind), you see
yourself as you really are and you change your mind in respect to
your relationship to God the Father and to His Son, the Lord
Jesus Christ. The act of repentance brings you to see your sin as
ugly as it is, as God sees it, and you come to a point where you
want to be free from it.
Of course, freedom from sin comes only by believing/trusting/
relying on the Lord Jesus Christ. The one who is regularly
committing sin is the slave of sin. However, if the Son shall set
you free from regularly committing sin, you shall be free indeed
(John 8:334,36)
The poor in spirit see their impotence to free themselves from
sin/failures/faults/errors. They see that freedom is possible only
through Christ's death for us as our substitute. They recognize
that salvation/deliverance comes by God's act of undeserved
and unmeritted kindness and mercy alone. They choose to
believe God and His Word about themselves and their
relationship with Him.
One cannot speak of the Crucifixion apart from the Resurrection.
It is the resurrection that gives us newness of life. Christ's
resurrection testifies to two vital truths. One, it shows that God
was propitiated, or satisfied, with the substitutionary death of
Jesus Christ. Jesus became the bearer of our sins. Isaiah's word
is "But he was wounded/pierced for our transgressions,
bruised/crushed for our iniquities; The chastisement for our
peace was upon Him, and by His stripes (from the cutting whips)
we are healed." In Romans 4:25 we read, "[He] who was
delivered up because of our transgressions, and was raised [from
the dead] because of our justification." "Raised because of our
justification" means that because Jesus' payment (the death of
His body) for our sins was adequate to satisfy the demands of
justice and a Holy God, God could then declare us righteous,
justified and made acceptable in His sight. Jesus was raised from
death because His death for us satisfied the righteousness of our
Holy God.
His resurrection shows us that Jesus Christ conquered death.
Death had a holdover man because of his sin/error/failures/
faults. However, once the death penalty of sin was paid for by
the death of Christ's body, death no longer had any holding
power. "The sting of death is sin, and the power of sin is the
law" (1 Corinth. 15:56). Jesus paid the price of redemption,
redeeming us from the curse of the Law, having become a curse
for us ---for cursed was everyone who was hung
on a tree/stake (Deut. 21:23; Gala. 3:13).
His death took away the power of sin. Jesus also took the stinger
out of death by paying for our sin so that we need have no fear of
what awaits us in and after death. Because our sin debt is paid for
in full by Christ, death has no power over us.
Dear Reader, have you come to the end of yourself? Have you
seen your total impotence, your total unworthiness? Have you
seen your nothingness apart from God? And have you seen
Jesus, God the Son who took upon Himself flesh and blood that
He might die for you and for all people? Have you decided that
you want His Way and Will in and for your life instead of your
own will and way?
Do you believe that? Do you believe He died in your place? Do
you believe that He was made sin for you, so that you, a helpless
and hopeless enemy of God, might have His righteousness and
His life? Have you repented---turned away from self-will to
believe on the Lord Jesus Christ----the God anointed Saviour
King of Israel? Out loud with your mouth agree with God about
the God anointed Saviour King of Israel, and you will be saved,
"for with the heart man believes, resulting in righteousness, and
with the mouth he confesses [Jesus], resulting in salvation."
Romans 10:10-13.
Joel 2: 32 And it shall be, whoever shall call on the name of the
LORD shall be saved; for salvation shall be in Mount Zion and
in Jerusalem, as the LORD has said, and in the remnant whom
the LORD shall call.
Ps 119:6 Then I shall not be ashamed, when I have respect to all
Your commandments.
Ps 119:80 Let my heart be sound in Your statutes, so that I may
not be ashamed.
Ps 119:116 Uphold me according to Your word, that I may live;
and let me not be ashamed of my hope.
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>1. Ezek.23:3b there were their breasts pressed, and there were
handled the teats of
their virginity. [Darby
There they have bruised their breasts, And there they have dealt
with the loves of
their virginity.[ylt]
>2. Ezek. 23:8 for in her youth they had lain with her, and had
handled the breasts of
her virginity, [Darby]
>3. Ezekiel 23:21 in the handling of thy teats by the Egyptians, for
the breasts of thy
youth.[Darby]
>6.9 Romans 1:26 For this cause God gave them up unto vile
affections : for even their women <2338> did change <3337>
(5656) the
natural <5446> use <5540> into that which is against <3844>
nature
<5449>:
3337 metallasso {met-al-las'-so}1) to exchange, change
5656 Tense - Aorist Voice - Active Mood - Indicative
This means that once and for all they exhanged or changed their
natural use for the unnatural, which for sure means having sex
with
animals (Lev. 18) and includes homosexuality and lesbianism.
For
sure it plainly states that if a woman once and for all decides to
exchange heterosexuality for lesbianism in her life, quitting
sexual
relations with men, then she is in a clear and explicit sin. What
about
bisexuality? The key is the use of "likewise" in Rom. 1:27.
Strong's 3668 homoios adv; Strong and Thayer render it
as:
1) likewise, equally, in the same way
Arndt&Gingrich:likewise, so, similarly, in the same way
Run verses 27 and 26 and it clarifies what God is saying about
lesbianism.
Paraphrased: Having left>* the God designed/made
physiological/biological>1 functions/use>2 of the female, the
males
were inflamed in their desire for that which is forbidden towards
one
another, males in/with/by males working/doing/performing>3
genitals>4 and receiving in themselves the recompense which
was fit
for their error.
Likewise/so/equally/similarly/in the same way their females
exchanged natural sex relations for those that are contrary>5 to
God's
design for God gave them up to disgraceful passions because the
people
changed the truth of God into a falsehood . . "
That would mean then that (Paraphrased) having left the God
designed/made/biological function/use of the male, the females
were
inflamed in their desire for that which is forbidden towards on
another, females in/with/by females
working/doing/performing
[their] genitals and receiving in themselves the recompense
which was
fit for their error.
What is the main point and the secondary point? The
main
point is that the females had genital intimacy with females, that
this is
dishonorable/vile/disgraceful in God's eyes. Such females "eat
forbidden fruit", have gone into forbidden activity. The
secondary
point is that at one clear and precise moment (the idea of the
aorist
here) they exchanged good behavior for evil behavior, they
tresspassed/ crossed the boundary of that which is honorable and
virtuous and trespassed/crossed into that which is
dishonorable/vile/disgraceful. The important thing is not the
point in
time [aorist] when they trespassed/crossed over, but the
important
thing is what they did at that point in time [aorist], that females
had
genital intimacy with females.
