'Real Love' Will Help Spread Truth About Human Sexuality

by Mary Beth Bonacci

Over the past year or so, I have mentioned periodically that when
I'm not writing columns or traveling, I've been working on
launching a new organization, Real Love, Inc. It struck me that
perhaps it's time to stop mentioning and actually tell you all
what I'm up to.

I have had a vision for this organization for the past 11 years,
ever since I first started speaking about chastity. It has always
struck me, as I do research and look for resources, how few good
materials on chastity are available. In 1986, when I began, most
of the chastity books and brochures I saw had been written in the
1940s (or at least looked that way). There were also a few more
"recent" materials, generally written in the '60s, which featured
photos of long-haired men in leisure suits playing the guitar in
daisy fields. I knew the situation had to change.

As I continued in my work, I began to read the works of John Paul
II on the Theology of the Body. I was blown away. His
understanding of the gift of human sexuality is so beautiful, so
positive, so scriptural and just so <right.> I kept thinking, If
Catholics of the last few generations had been exposed to this, we
wouldn't be in the mess we're in today. I knew that if I were to
do nothing with my life but make the Theology of the Body
accessible and understandable to the average. Catholic, I would be
doing something extremely worthwhile.

Real Love, Inc. is dedicated to doing just that. Our goal is to
spread the good news about human sexuality, based on John Paul
II's theology of the body, to the average person. Not <just> the
average theologian, or the average teenager. Everyone. We plan to
develop materials just for teenagers. We plan to develop materials
just for parents and teachers and priests and youth ministers who
want to help teenagers. We plan to develop materials for single
adults who want to learn about chastity on their own level,
without having to use words like "radical" and "dude". This
message is for everyone, and we want to bring it to everyone.

We've got several projects currently on tap. We are developing a
brochure series- without long-haired guys or daisy fields. We'll
be marketing beautiful, well-designed tracts and booklets on
<specific> subjects related to chastity and sexuality. I'm hoping
to see these pamphlets in crisis pregnancy center reading racks,
in schools, in churches, and at every talk on chastity ever given
anywhere.

We're also in the process of developing a seven-part curriculum on
chastity for youth ministry programs. We piloted to the program
last fall, and hope to have it in print and available sometime
within the next year.

I'm hoping to hold an annual training conference for parents and
educators. The conference, called The Institute for Real Love,
will probably debut in the summer of 1998.

I want Real Love, Inc. to be a clearinghouse for the best in
chastity books and materials. We are, of course, carrying my books
and videos. I'm also hoping to develop a catalog carrying other
materials that I recommend-the ones I use myself.

Other projects in the works include a newsletter, a Web page,
speaker training, regional workshops and support groups.

And, of course, we are in the final stages of applying for our
501(c)3 non profit status, so that all donations will be tax
deductible.

I am, for obvious reasons, very excited about this project. I
can't believe I could possibly maintain enthusiasm for an
undertaking like this for this long unless it was from God. I
truly believe he wants this organization to exist and to thrive,
just as I believe that spiritual powers of a less benevolent
nature <don't> want Real Love, Inc. to thrive. I believe that
these projects could make a <huge> difference in many lives, and
an even bigger difference for many, many souls.

Why do I tell you all of this? Several reasons. First, if you're
interested in the work in any way, please let us know. We're doing
all of this to help you. We want you to know what we're up to so
that we can help!

Second, (and most important), to ask for your prayers. Please keep
the intentions of Real Love, Inc. in your daily prayers. Believe
me, we need all of the Divine help we can get.

With His help, and yours, I think Real Love, Inc. can make a big
difference.

For more information on Real Love, Inc. write to 1520 W. Warner
Rd., No. 106-138, Gilbert, AZ 85233 or call 602-812-1194.

This article appeared in the March 6, 1997 issue of "The Arlington
Catholic Herald."

Courtesy of the "Arlington Catholic Herald" diocesan newspaper of
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