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Opening up //Gem\\
By: Gemclops Date: August 5, 2017, 5:12 pm
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Since its been brought up, I'm going to reveal my dad's death.
My parents are divorced and no longer lived together so it was
spring break, sometime within April, my sister and I were at my
dad's for the break. It was around 11:46 at night, my family
having a strange sleep schedule, my sister and I were in our
room. My stepmom/dad's girlfriend came in asking my sister if
she could help get our dad up. They both leave to go deal with
it. I wait a bit then wonder out and see my dad on the kitchen
floor while my sister and step mom try to find away to get him
up. He mention that he feels dizzy before making a strange
slurping/grloping sound. Next we know, he's not breathing and he
has no pulse. My step mom and I try to do mouth to mouth because
we don't know if its safe to do chest pressing since he had
heart surgery. The Etms arrive around 12:05 and take him to the
hospital while a machine does the chest presses.
We arrive and wait. 12:36 rolls in and we get the news. He
didn't make it. Nearly 2 o'clock in the morning my sister and I
are taken home with my mom.
Tell me its okay to use an acted death as an excuse to be rude.
Read this post and tell me that using a fake death is okay to
act like a 4 year old. Tell me how it works like that to be
okay.
#Post#: 2472--------------------------------------------------
Re: Opening up //Gem\\
By: EnchantedDragons Date: August 5, 2017, 5:16 pm
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Fictional deaths are different from real deaths.
No matter how hard you were messed up by a fictional death, they
aren't real. You can simply rewind to a time where they weren't
dead; it's sad, but they're not gone forever, since they never
existed.
For a real death, you'll never be able to see them in the flesh
again. Pictures, movies, and family might help, but they might
make it worse. You'll turn around, and then realize they're gone
all over again.
#Post#: 2475--------------------------------------------------
Re: Opening up //Gem\\
By: Hydrawings Date: August 5, 2017, 5:49 pm
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[s]i would also say something nasty about Future but I would
prefer to say it to her face...[/s]
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Re: Opening up //Gem\\
By: Darksea14 Date: August 5, 2017, 5:49 pm
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I've never lost a person before. My sweet little dog was
murdered, and while that felt like h*** every day, I know that
losing a person must be so much worse.
Future doesn't understand loss. When you lose someone, it's a
piece of you that's never coming back. It's waking up from a
nightmare where they are dying of an illness and realizing that
real life is worse than a nightmare. Loss is wondering what
their last moments were like and wishing you could have said
goodbye. Loss is staying up late, doing nothing but crying and
thinking this can't be real because real life isn't this cruel,
then realizing it is real and wanting it all to end. Loss is
feeling nothing and every sadness imaginable, trying to say
"it's ok" when people ask and then knowing that its not ok. It
wont be ok.
Future doesn't understand that this is what loss is, so I can
forgive her. But all the same, using a sad scene in a fictional
movie as an excuse is a mockery to what real loss is.
I'm sorry that I can't say anything more than depressing things.
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Re: Opening up //Gem\\
By: AroniaVirginiana Date: August 8, 2017, 4:00 pm
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I agree. Now, while I don't know who Gem is on the forums and
have never seen her(?) posts, I can relate to her/your
situation. My father completed suicide when I was ten. It might
get a little better with time, but it never goes away, and
always hurts.
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Re: Opening up //Gem\\
By: Rivulet Date: August 30, 2017, 4:17 pm
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Part of that reminded me of Mothflight's Vision. I cried for 3
days for Micah. But I know it's not real but it still made me
cry.
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