 |
Return Create A Forum - Home |
 |
--------------------------------------------------------- |
|
Turkish Series For English Speakers |
 |
https://turkishshows.createaforum.com |
|
--------------------------------------------------------- |
|
***************************************************** |
|
Return to: Turkish Traditions |
|
***************************************************** |
|
#Post#: 512540-------------------------------------------------- |
|
All about Turkey Traditions, Customs. |
|
By: Ayshia Date: November 4, 2014, 12:48 pm |
|
--------------------------------------------------------- |
|
I\'ll take your questions about Turkish traditions.� |
 |
es, thats |
|
it. Feel free ask to me |
|
|
|
|
|
em><strong>1.</strong></em> |
|
"What |
|
does throwing a bowl of water after a traveller signify?� I have |
|
seen this in Binbir Gece and in |
|
Karadayi.\"� |
|
|
|
em><strong>Answer:�</strong></em> |
 |
here are a |
|
Turkish saying �\"Go like water, come like water.\" It means |
|
that \"Go and come immediately.\" And because of this saying, |
|
some mothers throw a bowl of water behind their sons, when they |
|
went soldiering. It\'s become \'custom\' in course of |
|
time.� |
|
|
|
|
|
em><strong>2.�</strong></em> |
|
ave some Turkish man |
|
Polygamy?� |
|
|
|
em><strong>Answer:�</strong></em> |
|
o. Turkish man |
|
haven\'t got. This is banned in 1926. But in Turkey, yes, there |
|
are. Actually, the Kurds who living eastern side, they have |
|
polygamy. |
|
|
|
|
|
em><strong>3.�</strong></em> |
|
"Which finger is |
|
the engagement ring finger for women and men in Turkey and which |
|
one is the wedding ring finger? And does this differ from one |
|
region in Turkey to |
|
another?\"� |
|
|
|
strong><em>Answer:�</em></strong> |
|
b>�</b>Engagem |
|
ent |
|
ring finger is \"right\", and wedding ring finger is \"left\". |
|
Not changed. But some conservative married woman and man wear |
|
the ring on right side. And man mustn\'t wear gold ring (or |
|
about gold stuff) for our religion.� |
|
|
|
|
|
strong>4.�</strong> |
 |
s |
|
there a religious wedding in Turkey and how it is done? (I mean |
|
the ceremony) |
|
|
|
strong><em>Answer:</em></strong> |
|
o, there |
|
isn\'t ceremony. Only there is religious wedding in mosque or |
|
home.� |
|
efore modern wedding, everyone make religious wedding. |
|
And after 1-2 weeks religious wedding, occuring modern |
|
wedding.� |
|
aybe you watched on Kara Para Ask, Metin-Nil�fer |
|
religious wedding. The same.� |
|
n religious wedding, there are |
|
Imam, 2 Marriage Witness Man, or 1 Marriage Witness Man and 2 |
|
Marriage Witness Woman. |
|
mam, asks \"Do you want marriage to |
|
him/her?\" to bride and groom. And than, Imam asks \"What do you |
|
want for bride price?\" to woman.� |
|
|
|
hats it |
|
� |
|
em><strong>5.</strong></em> |
|
o, just to clarify your answers |
|
to question 2 and 4, so a second marriage isn\'t legally |
|
recognized by the government, right? The second wife doesn\'t |
|
have any rights? Even for the Kurds. And a marriage such as |
|
Metin-Nilu marriage is also not recognized by the law either, |
|
right? |
|
|
|
strong><em>Answer:</em></strong> |
|
es, second married |
|
is illegal. Law don\'t recognize religious wedding or polygamy. |
|
And yes, second wife haven\'t got any rights in law. She is only |
|
\"Third \'person\' between husband-wife\" for law. Law don\'t |
|
accept even first wife allow the second wife.� |
|
or example, If |
|
Nil�fer go to courthouse and say \"My husband beat me.\" law |
|
didn\'t accept her complaint. I mean they\'ve informal marriage |
|
in law. |
|
|
|
ahaha i love this job! I\'m law student. And please |
|
ask me about law, too easy for me |
|
:P� |
|
|
|
em><strong>6.</strong></em> |
|
an a judge in Turkey preside |
|
over a case in which the person standing trial is a family |
|
member or a friend or an ex-fiance? I am asking because in |
|
Karadayi, Feride, a judge, will supposedly handle Mahir\'s case |
|
(her ex-finance). That can\'t happen in real life, |
|
right?� |
|
|
|
em><strong>Answer:�</strong></em> |
|
o, it can\'t. |
|
Impossible. Giant logical error in Karaday?.� |
|
� |
|
|
|
em><strong>7.</strong></em> |
|
o, a religious ceremony such |
|
as Nilu-Metin\'s isn\'t recognized by law. Then, how does a |
|
couple marry legally? Meaning, to be recognized by law that they |
|
are married?� |
|
|
|
|
|
em><strong>Answer:</strong></em> |
|
ike other |
|
country. They have to consult register office. And they have to |
|
hold a wedding or |
|
solemnize.� |
|
|
|
|
|
em><strong>8.</strong></em> |
|
ee, for the past |
|
few months I keep seeing photoshopped pictures of this |
|
person: |
|
|
|
img |
|
src=\" |
|
http://www.starkibris.net/resimler/magazin/14102014/9.jpg\"<br |
|
/>alt=\"9.jpg\">� ��<img |
|
src=\" |
|
http://i.hizliresim.com/LoqoEo.jpg\"<br |
|
/>alt=\"LoqoEo.jpg\"> |
|
|
|
ho is she? And why is everyone |
|
photoshopping her in various situations?� |
|
� |
|
|
|
|
|
em><strong>Answer:</strong></em> |
|
ahaha. She is Nur |
|
Yerlita?. She is jury member of TV Fashion Contest; \"Bu Tarz |
|
Benim\". She never like competitior\'s clothes. Everytime she |
|
says \"What kind of clothes are they? Are they belongs to |
|
beggar?\" with above picture phiz.� |
|
nd people ridicule her phiz |
|
and her dissapprobation, on Internet.� |
|
ic translates; \"What |
|
kind of ship we\'ve been now?\" \"What kind of Match is |
|
this?\"� |
|
|
|
|
|
em><strong>9.</strong></em> |
|
hat about the henna |
|
night Ayshia?�and if i remember well Fatmagul wanted to give |
|
some henna to her neighbor, is it a tradition to give henna to |
|
unmarried friends |
|
etc?? |
|
|
|
|
|
em><strong>Answer:</strong></em> |
|
es. It\'s a custom. |
|
But not with just unmarried friends. Every bride make henna |
|
night with woman, girls, her friends...� |
|
henna night |
|
example; |
|
|
|
She wearing kaftan (caftan). Traditional woman |
|
costume of Ottoman Empire. � |
|
|
|
|
|
em><strong>10.</strong></em> |
|
|
|
have seen it is the mother who got custody of the children. Is |
|
this the case in Turkey? Does the mother always get custody and |
|
the father gets visitation |
|
rights?� |
|
|
|
strong><em>Answer:</em></strong> |
|
omplicated case. |
|
After couple divorce, child, mother and father go to trial for |
|
custody. Cancellarius decided which parent more care of the |
|
child than other parent? Therefore, mother or father gain |
|
child\'s custody.� |
|
|
|
img |
|
src=\" |
|
http://png-4.findicons.com/files/icons/905/style_islam/256/tesbih.png\"<br |
|
/>alt=\"tesbih.png\"> |
|
|
|
em><strong>11.</strong></em> |
|
hat is it |
|
called in |
|
Turkey? |
|
|
|
em><strong>Answer:�</strong></em> |
|
"Tesbih\" in |
|
Turkish. |
|
|
|
|
|
em><strong>12.</strong></em> |
|
f I see a character |
|
in a dizi with one one these, should I conclude that this |
|
character is suppose to be |
|
pious/religious? |
|
|
|
|
|
em><strong>Answer:</strong></em> |
|
ctually, |
|
no. If you see a character with tesbih, he is \"rowdy\". But in |
|
Turkey, it\'s extra both. All Turkey love tesbih, you can see |
|
its with conservative/not�conservative , rowdy/not rowdy.�So |
|
you\'re right : ) |
|
|
|
|
|
strong><em>13.</em></strong> |
|
hy do some |
|
girls sign the sole of a bride\'s shoe just before the wedding |
|
ceremony? what does it |
|
signify?� |
|
|
|
|
|
em><strong>Answer:</strong></em> |
|
sually the |
|
bride wrote unmarried friend\'s name in the sole of shoe. It\'s |
|
mean \"I hope you will married |
|
ASAP.\"� |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
em><strong>14.</strong></em> |
|
want to ask what |
|
the red ribbon around the bride |
|
means.. |
|
|
|
|
|
em><strong>Answer:</strong></em> |
|
ed Ribbon means |
|
\"Stay strong, be strong! I hope, Allah give you power.\" in |
|
Turkey |
|
|
|
|
|
em><strong>15.</strong></em> |
|
\'Oyle Bir Gecer |
|
Zamanki\', Cemile could have, if she wanted to, filed a |
|
complaint against Ali for having a relationship with Caroline as |
|
in the 60s it was illegal to have an�extramarital�affair in |
|
Turkey. And I think in last night\'s episode of Karadayi, Ayten |
|
reported Necdet for his affair (though I am not sure if this was |
|
the case, I didn\'t understand the exact�dialogue). So I guess |
|
my questions is this:�Is it true that a wife could have pressed |
|
charges against her husband if he cheated?� �And if it is true, |
|
Why did they change the law? That was a great |
|
law. |
|
|
|
|
|
em><strong>Answer:</strong></em> |
|
es, she can. If she |
|
sure the cheate, she can sue for damages, or she can divorce, or |
|
she can unhouse her husband with gendarmerie report. Not |
|
changed, still the same : |
|
) |
|
|
|
|
|
em><strong>16.</strong></em> |
|
hat is the name of the |
|
dance that begins in 1:07:14 |
|
? |
|
|
|
|
|
strong>Answer:�</strong> |
|
amat |
|
Halay?. |
|
|
|
|
|
em><strong>17.</strong></em> |
|
an you tell us about |
|
the engagement ceremony?<br>In KPA why did Omer put a golden |
|
chain to Elif\'s neck?� |
|
|
|
|
|
strong>Answer:</strong> |
|
ctually we |
|
don\'t call \'engagement\' for this ceremony. It\'s \"Asking for |
|
the girl\'s hand in marriage\" (K?z isteme) It\'s in our |
|
tradition/religion. The man come the girl\'s home with his kins |
|
(maximal 8-9 person), and his father or grandfather or anyone in |
|
the ancestry said that <em>\"Can we take your girls by our |
|
son\'s side (from your side) with Allah\'s allowance and the |
|
prophet Muhammad\'s sayings/deeds\"</em> to the the girl\'s mom |
|
or father, anyone in the girl\'s ancestry too.� |
|
nd the Man\'s |
|
family have to give valuable article (golden jewel) to the their |
|
bride. Generally,�engagement ceremony is happen after(1-2 months |
|
after) the \"K?z ?steme\" |
|
ceremony.� |
|
|
|
|
|
em><strong>18.</strong></em> |
|
yshia is a medical |
|
test obbligatory before the wedding in order to get |
|
married?Why?<br>Because when Elif and Omer went to book their |
|
wedding day they were asked to bring |
|
it...� |
|
|
|
|
|
strong>Answer:�</strong> |
|
supposed medical test |
|
obligatory�in every country before wedding. Isn\'t it? I |
|
suprised.� |
|
here are too many reason. |
|
ut the most important |
|
is�blood incompatibility and�sterility. Maybe boy is sterile and |
|
the girl doesn\'t know this.� |
|
|
|
n short, this is�assurance for |
|
couple\'s future.� |
|
#Post#: 512547-------------------------------------------------- |
|
All about Turkey Traditions, Customs. |
|
By: NightDew Date: November 4, 2014, 1:03 pm |
|
--------------------------------------------------------- |
|
Oh, this is awesome |
|
|
|
kay, for my second question, I need to |
|
find a photo, until I do, let me ask this instead: |
|
|
 |
. Which |
|
finger is the engagement ring finger for women and men in Turkey |
|
and which one is the wedding ring finger? And does this differ |
|
from one region in Turkey to another?� |
|
#Post#: 512595-------------------------------------------------- |
|
All about Turkey Traditions, Customs. |
|
By: ?PeRi? Date: November 4, 2014, 2:01 pm |
|
--------------------------------------------------------- |
|
I have a question, is there a religious wedding in Turkey and |
|
how it is done? (I mean the ceremony) |
|
#Post#: 512622-------------------------------------------------- |
|
All about Turkey Traditions, Customs. |
|
By: NightDew Date: November 4, 2014, 3:10 pm |
|
--------------------------------------------------------- |
|
Good question Peri. So�<a href=\"\" title=\"\" rel=\"external |
|
nofollow\">Ayshia</a>, just to clarify your answers to question |
|
2 and 4, so a second marriage isn\'t legally recognized by the |
|
government, right? The second wife doesn\'t have any rights? |
|
Even for the Kurds. And a marriage such as Metin-Nilu marriage |
|
is also not recognized by the law either, right? |
|
|
|
nd haha @ |
|
your BF |
|
|
|
hank you for clarifying this point: \"<em>But some |
|
conservative married woman and man wear the ring on right |
|
side.\"�</em>I asked because I had seen it on both fingers and |
|
yes, the woman I saw who was wearing on her right hand was |
|
conservative. Thank you |
|
#Post#: 512676-------------------------------------------------- |
|
All about Turkey Traditions, Customs. |
|
By: NightDew Date: November 4, 2014, 4:50 pm |
|
--------------------------------------------------------- |
|
Oh, so you are a law student. Guzel Let me think of a law |
|
question then, hmmmmmmmm, hmmmmm...Oh, here is one: |
|
|
|
an a |
|
judge in Turkey preside over a case in which the person standing |
|
trial is a family member or a friend or an ex-fiance? I am |
|
asking because in Karadayi, Feride, a judge, will supposedly |
|
handle Mahir\'s case (her ex-finance). That can\'t happen in |
|
real life, right? Oh, and I am not referring to season 2. |
|
Because in that case she was hiding her relationship, I am |
|
referring to S2 finale scene. |
|
|
|
|
|
TW, I like how you edit your |
|
first post and answer all the questions there, it keeps it all |
|
neat and tidy. Thank you |
|
#Post#: 512705-------------------------------------------------- |
|
All about Turkey Traditions, Customs. |
|
By: Lena Date: November 4, 2014, 7:46 pm |
|
--------------------------------------------------------- |
|
This is great! |
|
have a question so, a religious ceremony such |
|
as Nilu-Metin\'s isn\'t recognized by law. Then, how does a |
|
couple marry legally? Meaning, to be recognized by law that they |
|
are married? |
|
hanks in advance! |
|
#Post#: 512710-------------------------------------------------- |
|
All about Turkey Traditions, Customs. |
|
By: NightDew Date: November 4, 2014, 8:05 pm |
|
--------------------------------------------------------- |
|
Okay, I found the photos I was looking for. Now this is a silly |
|
question, but it is also the question I am DYING to know the |
|
answer � |
|
|
|
ee, for the past few months I keep seeing |
|
photoshopped pictures of this person: |
|
|
|
|
|
img |
|
src=\" |
|
http://fatmagultest.invisionzone.com/uploads/gallery/album_84/med_gallery_51041… |
|
/>alt=\"med_gallery_51041_84_52258.jpg\"> |
|
img |
|
src=\" |
|
http://fatmagultest.invisionzone.com/uploads/gallery/album_84/med_gallery_51041… |
|
/>alt=\"med_gallery_51041_84_17429.jpg\"> |
|
|
|
img |
|
src=\" |
|
http://fatmagultest.invisionzone.com/uploads/gallery/album_84/med_gallery_51041… |
|
/>alt=\"med_gallery_51041_84_55420.jpg\"> |
|
|
|
|
|
ho is she? And wh |
|
y |
|
is everyone photoshopping her in various situations? � |
|
#Post#: 512763-------------------------------------------------- |
|
All about Turkey Traditions, Customs. |
|
By: Thessaloniki Date: November 5, 2014, 3:33 am |
|
--------------------------------------------------------- |
|
glad to meet a future colleague� from Turkey� |
|
|
|
hat about the |
|
henna night Ayshia? i watched this in Fatmagul...and if i |
|
remember well Fatmagul wanted to give some henna to her |
|
neighbor, is it a tradition to give henna to unmarried friends |
|
etc?? |
|
|
|
|
|
h and since you live in Istanbul do you any idea |
|
where can we find the Elif\'s jewelery in a store or something? |
|
:siffle: |
|
#Post#: 512918-------------------------------------------------- |
|
All about Turkey Traditions, Customs. |
|
By: Ayshia Date: November 5, 2014, 11:28 am |
|
--------------------------------------------------------- |
|
[quote author=Thessaloniki date=1415179984] |
|
lad to meet a |
|
future colleague� from Turkey� |
|
|
|
hat about the henna night |
|
Ayshia? i watched this in Fatmagul...and if i remember well |
|
Fatmagul wanted to give some henna to her neighbor, is it a |
|
tradition to give henna to unmarried friends etc?? |
|
|
|
|
|
h and |
|
since you live in Istanbul do you any idea where can we find the |
|
Elif\'s jewelery in a store or something? :siffle: |
|
/quote] |
|
|
|
|
|
researched, most of their produced by BEND?S TAKI and L?DANYA |
|
TAKI. They are have e-shop.�There can shipping to other |
|
countries, if you want .� |
|
ou can look at; |
|
<a href=\"\" |
|
rel=\"external |
|
nofollow\"> |
|
http://www.lidyana.com/taki/bayan-takilari</a> |
|
� |
|
f |
|
you want to buy someone, you can contact with me. I\'ll explain |
|
you how you can buy it |
|
#Post#: 512921-------------------------------------------------- |
|
All about Turkey Traditions, Customs. |
|
By: ?PeRi? Date: November 5, 2014, 11:36 am |
|
--------------------------------------------------------- |
|
Thank you for that�Nur Yerlita?, i was wondering who is she |
|
too...hahahaha so funny! � |
|
our answers are so interesting, |
|
thank you! � |
|
***************************************************** |
|
Next Page |
![http://www.starkibris.net/resimler/magazin/14102014/9.jpg\"<br](http://www.starkibris.net/resimler/magazin/14102014/9.jpg\"<br){kind=link}
![http://i.hizliresim.com/LoqoEo.jpg\"<br](http://i.hizliresim.com/LoqoEo.jpg\"<br){kind=link}
![http://png-4.findicons.com/files/icons/905/style_islam/256/tesbih.png\"<br](http://png-4.findicons.com/files/icons/905/style_islam/256/tesbih.png\"<br){kind=link}
![http://fatmagultest.invisionzone.com/uploads/gallery/album_84/med_gallery_51041…](http://fatmagultest.invisionzone.com/uploads/gallery/album_84/med_gallery_51041_84_52258.jpg\"<br){kind=link}
![http://fatmagultest.invisionzone.com/uploads/gallery/album_84/med_gallery_51041…](http://fatmagultest.invisionzone.com/uploads/gallery/album_84/med_gallery_51041_84_17429.jpg\"<br){kind=link}
![http://fatmagultest.invisionzone.com/uploads/gallery/album_84/med_gallery_51041…](http://fatmagultest.invisionzone.com/uploads/gallery/album_84/med_gallery_51041_84_55420.jpg\"<br){kind=link}