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| Young Adult Application (ages 18-20) | |
| By: Admin Date: June 5, 2013, 7:25 pm | |
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| [center]Young Adult Application (ages 18-20)[/center] | |
| ***Before applying with a young adult, the body must have at | |
| least one other inner/alter who has been active on the board for | |
| at least 3 months. We at SNF do not consider a young adult as | |
| either a child or adult but a transition phase between the two. | |
| They will have a lot more freedom than a child, and be allowed | |
| to act as adults in minor situations with young children, but | |
| not held to the same set of responsibilities as those 21 and | |
| over. | |
| Inner kids, Inner adults, and alters are welcome to join our | |
| site, but we ask everyone to fill in an application in order to | |
| protect Starlit Night Falls and its members. This site has a | |
| very strict acceptance policy, so please understand that it may | |
| take some time to process your application, and there is no | |
| guarantee you will be accepted. If you are approved, you will | |
| receive notification by email. | |
| Please send all applications to: [email protected] | |
| Parts one and two of this application will form your 'member | |
| profile' if accepted. Part three is 'real life' information for | |
| the reference of the Administration only. You must fill out and | |
| submit every section of this application to be considered for | |
| membership. | |
| PART ONE | |
| Full name: | |
| Nicknames: | |
| Gender: | |
| Age (Do you age every year or is the age permanent?): | |
| Birthday: | |
| I am comfortable with the following adults approaching me in a | |
| disciplinary manner (Please put any if you have no preference): | |
| Where are you living: (family home if you have a family, | |
| otherwise write Youth Retreat) | |
| Please list all family members on site and their relationship to | |
| you: | |
| Please give some details about yourself, such as your | |
| personality, character traits, likes/dislikes, history, etc: | |
| I am looking for inners who will fill the following roles: (are | |
| you looking for a sibling? friend? etc.) | |
| I am open to inners who will fill the following roles: (please | |
| state relationships you would be open to, though are not looking | |
| for.) | |
| PART TWO - The Big must fill this out | |
| Please state if your young adult is likely to need any | |
| discipline. If so, please describe the amount of discipline your | |
| young adult would need: | |
| Is your young adult comfortable non-physically disciplining | |
| young children (aged 4-7)? If so, how? | |
| Who may administer discipline to the Young Adult? Please select | |
| one of the following. | |
| (1) Discipline may only be administered by the young adult's | |
| family members (must be on-site and active) | |
| (2) Discipline may only be administered by the following people | |
| (Must be on-site and active. Must gain permission from the adult | |
| before putting their name here.) | |
| (3) Any adult may discipline the young adult | |
| Discipline and Guidance Information [If something is a limit or | |
| a trigger, please say so] - | |
| How would your Young Adult respond to: | |
| 1. Being sent to their room to think? | |
| 2. Research essays? | |
| 3. Reflection essays? | |
| 4. Additional duties? | |
| 5. Removal/restriction of privileges (TV, Computer, Phone, | |
| etc.)? | |
| Is it alright to spank the young adult? | |
| Is it alright to spank the young adult with a bare bottom? | |
| Is it alright to spank the young adult on the thighs? | |
| Other forms of effective discipline: | |
| Are you comfortable with men disciplining the young adult? | |
| Are you comfortable with women disciplining the young adult? | |
| Is the young adult comfortable with changing, bathing and | |
| dressing a child? What are their intimate care limits when it | |
| comes to children? (Please be specific) | |
| Please list ALL triggers. Triggers elicit a strong emotion. | |
| Please list what the reaction will be to a trigger, and how it | |
| MAY be handled (not necessarily will). | |
| Please take the time to list ALL hard limits. Hard limits are | |
| triggers that may not be approached or broken for any reason. | |
| About the Big: (Anything you think we should know about you as a | |
| big, that will help us understand your young adult. This is not | |
| mandatory.) | |
| PART THREE- (For Administrative Purposes Only) | |
| Big's Name: | |
| Real Age (the body): | |
| Contact Email (must be active): | |
| Have you read all our rules and polices (especially the unique | |
| ones pertaining to this age group)? | |
| Do you understand them, and agree to follow them at all times? | |
| Inner(s)/Alter(s) already on the board: | |
| Do you have an Ageplay family, on or off site? If so, who is in | |
| your family? | |
| If you are looking to join a family at any time during your stay | |
| here, do you understand this could take some time, and are you | |
| willing to be patient? | |
| Why do you want to join Starlit Night Falls? | |
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