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| IS YOUR PARTNER ENTITLED TO YOUR SOCIAL MEDIA PASSWORDS IN A COM | |
| MITTED RELATIONSHIP? | |
| By: lolafoundation Date: April 3, 2017, 8:53 am | |
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| IS YOUR PARTNER ENTITLED TO YOUR SOCIAL MEDIA PASSWORDS IN A | |
| COMMITTED RELATIONSHIP? | |
| This question is so important that you have to discuss it with | |
| your partner; even when you�re yet to be married. Do you have | |
| access to your partner social media accounts? Do they have | |
| access to yours? Why or why not? Does not providing your | |
| password automatically mean you�re hiding something? What are | |
| your thought on this? | |
| Some few days ago I was listening to a man, narrating how he | |
| caught his wife cheating on him through her mobile phone via | |
| WhatsApp messages!!! He said, We had been married for 10yrs and | |
| have 3 kids together. we have been living peaceful together, I | |
| love my wife very much that I do ensure that she lack nothings. | |
| I am a very responsible and God fearing man. According to him, | |
| My wife works in another state and often comes back weekends; so | |
| on this fateful day, she came back on Saturday, I and the | |
| children were so excited to see her and we enjoyed ourselves | |
| together, on Sunday evening I decide to turn on the generator so | |
| we could charge the electronics and watch the T.V because there | |
| was no electricity��..so she decided to switch-off her mobile | |
| phone and charge it. | |
| The next morning was a Monday, she was ready to go back to her | |
| station, so I accompanied with her luggage and convey her to the | |
| garage where she boarded a vehicle that took her to her PPA. A | |
| few hours later I received a strange call from an unknown | |
| number�so I picked up the call and I realized it was my wife | |
| calling, she had forgotten her mobile phone!!! I told her not to | |
| worry, that I will keep it and on Tuesday I will bring it down | |
| to her. | |
| A few hours later, she called me back and said� Darling please | |
| do not turn on my phone, just keep it for me please I am begging | |
| you� I felt so uncomfortable with this statement as many thought | |
| flipped through my heart�. So by evening, I decided to turn on | |
| her phone and see what she is hiding from me. I did not see | |
| anything strange on the phone, but my spirit said I should check | |
| through her WhatsApp message�then I realized she had been | |
| cheating on me. i saw romantic messages, dirty and flirtatious | |
| messages on her phone�.i was depressed throughout the midnight. | |
| The following morning I decided to go see her in her place of | |
| work, on getting there she welcomed him and the first thing she | |
| asked was her phone�..i gave her the phone , she collected it | |
| and hurriedly left��she came back a few minute and she look so | |
| happy. | |
| I decided to confront her�. immediately she yelled at me... She | |
| brought out the phone and threw it at me asking me to show him | |
| the messages!!! I pick up the phone and flipped through her | |
| WhatsApp messages...lo and behold she had deleted the message | |
| �..I was shocked, I apology to her because I realized I had no | |
| evidence against her�.I made a big mistake!!! | |
| Have you asked your partner if they�ve always been faithful or | |
| their thoughts on cheating? | |
| I realized that most times before you fall into the sin of | |
| cheating there are some indiscretions you over looked, ignored | |
| or somehow excuses you give until the inevitable happens!!!.... | |
| The inappropriate likes on **** Facebook pictures, the extra DM | |
| on twitter, the extra flirtatious laugh and touch you entice | |
| each other, unworthy stuff you discuss, they are playfully at | |
| first, until that invisible feeling emerged. I called these | |
| outright deceitful actions or what do you think? | |
| Yes!!! I was away and that was why you have not been seeing my | |
| post on Lola foundation recently by God�s grace I�m back �I did | |
| achieved a lot while I was away though.�.i got certified as a | |
| professional counsellor and have been counseling more people | |
| and I�m almost rounding up my master degree program. I love you | |
| for sticking with me and I will see you in my next post and like | |
| I do say; don�t fall in love with the wrong reasons!!! Read | |
| more www.lolafoundation.com.ng. #Coachlola | |
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