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| #Post#: 6677-------------------------------------------------- | |
| New Principal - Ken Sanders | |
| By: Jack Date: June 26, 2018, 3:44 pm | |
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| I met the new... maybe it would be easier if we called them | |
| Associate Principals... the new Associate Principal today. Mr. | |
| P called to let me know he was going to be at the Academy and | |
| asked if I'd like to come in to meet him. | |
| When I arrived, Mr. P introduced us, and let him know I've been | |
| working as an assistant principal when I'm around, as well as my | |
| work with the ADHD and challenged reading students. | |
| Mr. Sanders was actually my top choice for the job, so I'm glad | |
| he accepted it. | |
| I found out that Mr. Sanders accepted the job at basically the | |
| same time Andy accepted his. They were already looking for a | |
| new home anyway, so it wasn't hard for them to close on one, and | |
| they were actually here today to finish up a bit of paperwork. | |
| His wife, Tamara, was also here, but she had driven separately, | |
| and had left town before Mr. Sanders went to BCA. | |
| Mr. Sanders wasn't by himself when I met him, though. | |
| It turns out that Mr. Sanders is in his second marriage. From | |
| his first marriage, he has a college-age daughter, one in high | |
| school, and his youngest child from the first marriage is a | |
| 13-year old boy named Jeremy. From his second marriage, he has | |
| a six-year old son, a 4-year old daughter, and a 12-year old | |
| step-son. Jeremy was with him today. | |
| It also turns out that the house on which they just closed is in | |
| Arbor Grove, maybe 5 blocks from our house. I don't know that | |
| house specifically, but from what he says, it's a slightly | |
| different floorplan from the Malone's, with five bedrooms | |
| upstairs, and instead of the large master suite, it has a master | |
| bedroom and a separate office. | |
| I invited Ken and Jeremy over for lunch, which they were happy | |
| to accept. After we dropped their car off here, I gave them a | |
| quick tour of the area. During that trip, Jeremy explained that | |
| he's been living with his mom, but he and her step-son don't get | |
| along, and it's gotten so bad CPS has gotten involved. | |
| (Seriously, Jeremy has a small scar on his lip, where he'd | |
| needed a couple of stitches after being punched my his | |
| step-brother; however, the step-brother apparently had a black | |
| eye and bloody nose). The problem is that his mother's husband | |
| was widowed, not divorced, so the kid had no place else to go; | |
| ergo - Jeremy is now living with his dad. | |
| Jeremy is an extremely intelligent kid. While his step-brother | |
| (on his dad's side - Tamara's son) is an average student, but | |
| more athletic, so might be attending the public schools, Jeremy | |
| will definitely be attending BCA, where they're working on a | |
| program with him taking a mix of 8th and 9th grade classes, with | |
| some self-study. | |
| I asked Jeremy how it was going with moving in with his dad | |
| right before they moved. | |
| "Pretty good. It'll be great to finally have my own bedroom | |
| again. Right now, me and Da... I mean Dad and I are | |
| negotiating about rules and consequences." | |
| "Oh really?" I said, leaving it open for him. | |
| "Yeah, I tried to convince him I'm mature enough to make good | |
| decisions, so I don't really need to be punished or no.. | |
| anything. Plus, I guess I know myself too well, because I | |
| couldn't manage to say it with a straight face." | |
| I wanted to pursue that conversation further, but we were | |
| getting back home, and lunch was already set out. | |
| Jeremy was pretty excited. While my kids are at camp... | |
| "I thought your kids were at camp this week?" Mr. Sanders said. | |
| "They are. These are.... Well, they just hang out here. Oh | |
| wait, those over there are mine." | |
| Mr. Sanders: blank look. | |
| Jeremy: "Oh man, this place is v." ( I'm pretty sure that's | |
| good). | |
| Anyway, they had to leave after lunch (despite Jeremy asking his | |
| dad if he couldn't just stay in my library until they get back), | |
| but they're hoping/planning to get moved in at the end of next | |
| week. They have some minor work being done on it, but all of it | |
| pretty minor, and should be done this week. So, maybe they'll | |
| be able to join us for the Independence Day BBQ. | |
| #Post#: 6680-------------------------------------------------- | |
| Re: New Principal - Ken Sanders | |
| By: Zyngaru Date: June 26, 2018, 4:40 pm | |
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| Jack the boy magnet or is it his house? Hmmmmmmm ;D ;D ;D | |
| #Post#: 6687-------------------------------------------------- | |
| Re: New Principal - Ken Sanders | |
| By: David M. Katz Date: June 27, 2018, 12:50 am | |
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| Jeremy should be able to find some neighborhood friends at your | |
| place. | |
| You need to invite him over for a swim. | |
| #Post#: 6694-------------------------------------------------- | |
| Re: New Principal - Ken Sanders | |
| By: Jack Date: June 27, 2018, 4:29 am | |
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| [quote author=Zyngaru link=topic=659.msg6680#msg6680 | |
| date=1530049205] | |
| Jack the boy magnet or is it his house? Hmmmmmmm ;D ;D ;D | |
| [/quote] | |
| I think it's simply a case that we've exceeded critical mass. | |
| During an average summer day, we not only have my kids and | |
| probably the grands, but we have plenty of older kids to | |
| supervise the younger ones, we have a huge yard and the park | |
| next door, and we have a large pool, the game room, a bunch of | |
| dogs, and I keep food and drink available all the time (even if | |
| most of it is healthy), so it's a combination of a good place to | |
| hang out, and there always being a lot of kids around. | |
| [quote author=David M. Katz link=topic=659.msg6687#msg6687 | |
| date=1530078604] | |
| Jeremy should be able to find some neighborhood friends at your | |
| place. | |
| You need to invite him over for a swim. | |
| [/quote] | |
| Like I said, they're having some minor renovations done before | |
| they move in like cleaning and servicing the A/C, painting, | |
| ripping out the carpet, and doing some renovations in the | |
| bathroom and kitchen (Mr. P actually recommended Joe Mintz's | |
| dad, but he's all tied up - mostly with trying to get Pump Up | |
| the Jump finished - but Curtis Malone has people doing the AC | |
| and he was able to recommend someone for the rest of the work), | |
| so they probably won't be moving in until sometime next week. | |
| However, I did make sure they were invited to the Independence | |
| Day block party, and, while I explained our 'no girls without | |
| warning' policy, I did make it clear the girls were welcome with | |
| a bit of warning, and the boys were always welcome (within | |
| normal hours, of course). | |
| #Post#: 6705-------------------------------------------------- | |
| Re: New Principal - Ken Sanders | |
| By: kalico Date: June 27, 2018, 11:55 am | |
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| I always love the reactions of new people... | |
| So do you think he will be a frequent visitor now... | |
| Sounds like the whole situation turned out good for this family | |
| and I wish them well.... | |
| Thanks for sharing jack | |
| Hugs kal | |
| #Post#: 6708-------------------------------------------------- | |
| Re: New Principal - Ken Sanders | |
| By: Jack Date: June 27, 2018, 2:36 pm | |
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| [quote author=kalico link=topic=659.msg6705#msg6705 | |
| date=1530118537] | |
| I always love the reactions of new people... | |
| [/quote] | |
| It's usually fun for me as well. :) | |
| [quote author=kalico link=topic=659.msg6705#msg6705 | |
| date=1530118537] | |
| So do you think he will be a frequent visitor now... | |
| [/quote] | |
| From the way he talked, and as close as they'll be living, I'm | |
| sure he and I are going to be close friends. I'm also pretty | |
| sure he'll get along fine with my boys his age as well. | |
| #Post#: 6903-------------------------------------------------- | |
| Re: New Principal - Ken Sanders | |
| By: Jack Date: July 5, 2018, 5:26 am | |
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| Mr Sanders introduced me to his entire family yesterday, and I | |
| have to admit I was a bit surprised for some reason. | |
| His wife, Tamara, is black. Actually a fairly nice looking | |
| lady. She reminds me a lot of Angela Basset in Vampire in | |
| Brooklyn or Strange Days, but with Viola Davis' complexion (yes, | |
| I had to look that one up). She wears her hair like Simone | |
| Missick (Misty Knight on the Luke Cage Netflix series) where | |
| it's kind of an afro, but parted and hangs down. His 12-year | |
| old step-son, Joe, is a decent looking kid, with what might be | |
| called a very tight afro, and a much lighter complexion than his | |
| mom has. The little kids are both lighter than even Joe, but | |
| I'm not positive I have their names right, so I'm not going to | |
| risk it. | |
| I didn't get to spend much time with them yesterday, but Ken and | |
| Tamara both volunteered to help with some of the serving and | |
| stuff, and Tamara umped the baseball game. I think they got to | |
| meet and talk to a bunch of different people, and they seemed to | |
| have a good time. I did find out that they already have the | |
| major moving finished, and they're just unpacking boxes now. | |
| It's really simple to get from their house to ours (Arbor Grove | |
| is a basic grid and the roads are almost completely straight), | |
| so Jeremy and Joe are going to be allowed to take a break from | |
| unpacking their rooms and come over for a while today. | |
| #Post#: 6916-------------------------------------------------- | |
| Re: New Principal - Ken Sanders | |
| By: Adric Date: July 5, 2018, 9:37 am | |
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| Had Ken Sanders spoken much about his family before you actually | |
| met them? | |
| I think I remember that there were to be two other principals | |
| hired. Has that already taken place? | |
| #Post#: 6930-------------------------------------------------- | |
| Re: New Principal - Ken Sanders | |
| By: Leti Date: July 5, 2018, 12:02 pm | |
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| Great that you met the family and that they will live close, | |
| Jeremy and Joe will be frequent visitors! | |
| Ken had already seen your place with lots of kids, what did they | |
| say of all the people they found yesterday? :o | |
| #Post#: 6933-------------------------------------------------- | |
| Re: New Principal - Ken Sanders | |
| By: Jack Date: July 5, 2018, 12:16 pm | |
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| [quote author=Adric link=topic=659.msg6916#msg6916 | |
| date=1530801431] | |
| Had Ken Sanders spoken much about his family before you actually | |
| met them? | |
| I think I remember that there were to be two other principals | |
| hired. Has that already taken place? | |
| [/quote] | |
| No and no. Which is to say that we only met for a few hours, | |
| and he hadn't said much at all about his family. Also, no, | |
| they're not going to be hiring more principals. He is the only | |
| new one this year, largely because they felt Mr. P couldn't deal | |
| with discipline on all the boys and deal with his other duties | |
| as well. | |
| On the other hand, they are hiring at least 8 new teachers, and | |
| I'm not sure how many of those besides Andy and Bobby they've | |
| already hired. | |
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