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| Eating when I feel anxious or overwhelmed | |
| By: Bernadette Date: May 23, 2014, 6:57 am | |
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| This was a biggie for me. And as soon as I sank my teeth into a | |
| chocolate biscuit, a feeling of relief poured in, and I could | |
| momentarily escape the discomfort of feeling anxious. Now I try | |
| to stay with the anxiety instead of abandoning myself to food. | |
| I'm more aware now, and 'sit with' the anxiety. I'm usually | |
| anxious about really small tasks such as sending an email, | |
| phoning someone. I find it can help to remind myself that "I can | |
| cope and I am a competent adult". Do you eat when you're | |
| anxious? | |
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| Re: Eating when I feel anxious or overwhelmed | |
| By: Junebaby Date: May 23, 2014, 8:32 am | |
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| I keep procrastinating and putting things off, only little | |
| things, as you also say. But I find then that I just eat and | |
| pick and everything ends up being done in the last 10 minutes. I | |
| think I get a bit overwhelmed by all I have to do. Or sometimes | |
| I feel like I have no support to do everything. Always trying to | |
| keep on top of everything. Need to figure out this one more... J | |
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| Re: Eating when I feel anxious or overwhelmed | |
| By: Naz Date: June 3, 2014, 6:06 am | |
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| I've just realised over the last few days of doing this | |
| programme, that I definitely eat a whole bunch more when I am | |
| anxious or fee overwhelmed. I didn't realise this before. | |
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| Re: Eating when I feel anxious or overwhelmed | |
| By: Bernadette Date: June 10, 2014, 3:41 pm | |
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| Any tips for coping when you feel overwhelmed or stressed, so | |
| you don't end up turning to food as often? | |
| Here something I try: I remind myself that it's ok and normal to | |
| feel overwhelmed and that I don't have to be in control of | |
| everything. I once heard that we only have control over 15% of | |
| what happens in our lives! :o Once I accept that I simply | |
| cannot be in control always, I'm less likely to fight it and | |
| start eating! | |
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| Re: Eating when I feel anxious or overwhelmed | |
| By: Junebaby Date: August 8, 2014, 12:55 pm | |
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| I'm beginning to see that too, as Naz said. I eat when I feel | |
| overwhelmed or stressed. Even the smallest thing can set me off. | |
| Like an unexpected bill in the post. I need to figure this one | |
| out. | |
| #Post#: 86-------------------------------------------------- | |
| Re: Eating when I feel anxious or overwhelmed | |
| By: Junebaby Date: September 6, 2014, 2:52 pm | |
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| One thing I have figured out that helps me when I feel | |
| overwhelmed is to start saying 'no' to people. I do too much for | |
| others, and end up with loads on my plate (excuse the pub). For | |
| example, instead of agreeing to mind my sister's 2 kids while | |
| she goes clothes shopping, I simply told her that I've too much | |
| on today. I been practising it more lately, and it's definitely | |
| helping. | |
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