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Young Adult Application (ages 18-21)
By: Admin Date: December 5, 2019, 8:17 pm
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Young Adult Application (ages 18-21)
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Please Note: Before applying with a young adult, your system
must have at least one other inner who has been active on the
board for at least 3 months. We at Heartland consider Young
Adults to be in a transitional phase between child and adult and
have policies in place to reflect this. There are multiple
guardianship options for young adults: 1) To have a relative
serve as their guardian, 2) to have a non-relative assigned as
their guardian (the focus is on mentorship, not restriction) or
3) to not have any assigned guardian, and should a situation
come up requiring an adult enter, the administration will send
in a care worker or a social worker (with the hope of choosing
someone who the YA has interacted with and feels comfortable
with, whenever possible). 4) Select YAs live in the Warehouse,
where they function as full adults keeping an eye out for the
Warehouse kids (note: this option is only open to those who have
been on the board with any inner - not necessarily that YA - and
active for at least 6 months). Young Adults can correct those
under 18, but are not above correction themselves. Young Adults
are not permitted to adopt or foster.
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We ask anyone interested in joining us to fill in an application
and send it to: [email protected]
This application will form your 'member profile' if accepted and
refer to the inner applying to the board. You must fill out and
submit every section of this application to be considered for
membership.
PART ONE
Full name:
Nicknames:
Gender:
Age:
Birthday:
I am comfortable with the following adults approaching me in a
disciplinary manner (Please put any if you have no preference):
Who is your guardian:
Where are you living (with your guardian or University Dorms):
Please list any family members on site and their relationship to
you:
Please give some details about yourself, such as your
personality, character traits, likes/dislikes, history, etc:
PART TWO - The Big must fill this out
Is the young adult comfortable with changing, bathing and
dressing a child or helping them when ill? Please be specific
with their comfort levels.
Is your young adult comfortable disciplining children and teens?
If yes, what ages/gender(s)?
How would your young adult be most likely to discipline children
and teens? What punishments won�t they use? What are they most
likely to use?
Please describe the amount of discipline your young adult would
need:
Who may administer discipline to the young adult? Please select
one of the following. Note: Must have an adult�s permission to
list them under #1.
(1) Discipline may only be administered by the following people
(must be on-site and active).
(2) Any adult may discipline the young adult.
Discipline and Guidance Information [If something is a limit or
a trigger, please say so. Please give detailed information as
this is how we know what will work best for your young adult] -
How would your young adult respond to:
1. Being sent to their room to think?
2. Research essays?
3. Reflection essays?
4. Additional duties?
5. Removal/restriction of privileges (TV, Computer, Phone,
etc.)?
6. Restriction of freedom (i.e. may not leave residence
other than university classes)?
Is it alright to spank the young adult? Please list acceptable
implements if yes.
Is it alright to spank the young adult with a bare bottom?
Is it alright to spank the young adult on the thighs?
Other forms of effective discipline:
Are you comfortable with men disciplining the young adult?
Are you comfortable with women disciplining the young adult?
Please list ALL triggers. Triggers elicit a strong emotion.
Please list what the reaction will be to a trigger, and how it
MAY be handled (not necessarily will).
Please take the time to list ALL hard limits. Hard limits are
triggers that may not be approached or broken for any reason.
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