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| Subtler areas of discrimination | |
| By: Slavka Date: May 22, 2018, 7:57 am | |
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| I thought about this... | |
| I think it could be something like not giving a job to a woman | |
| that may be pregnant (illegal but still happens); I have seen | |
| this in the past. Employers may perceive pregnant women/women of | |
| child bearing age as a risk as they may go off on a maternity | |
| leave and they'll have to find someone else; it's a simple cost | |
| cutting exercise. Far more common in the private sector than in | |
| the public sector though. | |
| Years ago I worked with a lady who actually got fired when she | |
| had the baby and went off on a maternity leave. She was fired | |
| via a phone call. She was foreign and perhaps the employer | |
| thought they could get away with it but they must have known it | |
| was illegal. She sued the company. | |
| Another subtler form could be ageism. | |
| We live in a society that does not see wisdom in old age, like | |
| they do in the other cultures. Being old is to be perceived as | |
| ill, a burden, a has been. | |
| It's very difficult to change a career once you are in your 30's | |
| and onwards; people aren't fresh faced straight from uni and | |
| 'young bright things' that are just starting out and who can be | |
| easily 'moulded' into the employer's requirements - employers | |
| don't want to risk employing someone who may have a lot of | |
| transferable skills but zero experience in the area. There was a | |
| brilliant movie with Robert De Niro and Anne Hathaway exactly on | |
| this topic - The Intern. A great movie with a powerful message. | |
| I think this is pretty rife actually. It's sad because the | |
| retirement age has been increased and people even in their late | |
| 30's, 40's, 50's have many years of work ahead of them before | |
| they can actually retire. | |
| I went to do psychology as a mature student aged 24 and then did | |
| my occupational post grad. I was thinking of joining a | |
| graduation scheme and went to a few assessment centres - at this | |
| point I've had over 11years of work experience behind me and was | |
| looking at things slightly differently. As for the graduation | |
| schemes, to me it felt it was the loudest, the most competitive | |
| and 'me me me' people who got in - it was amazing to watch the | |
| group exercises. I liked to observe and not 'jump in'. An | |
| interesting experience indeed. When I applied for other jobs, my | |
| transferable skills did not seem to matter much either. But it | |
| all ended up well, I eventually found my own path and here I am | |
| :-) | |
| #Post#: 58-------------------------------------------------- | |
| Re: Subtler areas of discrimination | |
| By: VicTS Date: May 23, 2018, 7:10 am | |
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| Subtler way to discriminate; clothes, what we decide to dress in | |
| plays can make others discriminate. Indeed, it gives us vital | |
| information about others, what they are doing, or where they are | |
| going, who they worship or what there political allegiances are. | |
| Uniforms also give us information, but they also cause | |
| discrimination. I often consider what I am wearing and how it | |
| looks to the client, do I appear professional to them, | |
| respectful, kind, intelligent etc. I have often heard others | |
| dismiss people because of what they wear, for example, wearing | |
| traditional Indian dress for a woman gives a traditional sense | |
| and therefore may be discriminated against in a job interview. | |
| I have witnessed people being turned away from night clubs | |
| because they are in trainers and this indicated that they would | |
| start being aggressive once inside the club, discrimination on | |
| the type of footwear they have. | |
| People who wear glasses may face discrimination and stereotypes, | |
| I worked with a lady who had very poor eyesight, she had a guide | |
| dog and large computer screen to work with. Colleagues often | |
| approached her speaking loudly, they wrongly assumed she was | |
| deaf and she was always discriminated against with social | |
| events. | |
| Food; if you eat takeaways you are a type of person, if you cook | |
| fresh you are another type! | |
| Hair colour and tattoos, body piercings and jewelry. People | |
| face daily discrimination, especially with tattoos, they have a | |
| fear factor with them. | |
| What type of car you drive or motorbike. | |
| I guess what could be stereo types can also lead to | |
| discrimination in subtle way, however people face real problems | |
| with their lives because of it. | |
| I was at a networking meeting by the BACP last week and saw a | |
| lady who had previously turned up with Gothic jewelry, dramatic | |
| makeup and tattoos prominent. When I saw her this time she had | |
| totally toned down her look and I understood why, as a therapist | |
| she could have faced discrimination because of her appearance. | |
| I realise that we all feel we have to tone down who we are, but | |
| does this mean that her therapy is toned down? | |
| It may be easier for people to deny their subtle discrimination | |
| because it is not recognised as discrimination. | |
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