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| #Post#: 61843-------------------------------------------------- | |
| I implemented a new rule on my message board and it's slightly u | |
| npopular. How to respond to complaints? | |
| By: Victoria Date: December 22, 2020, 9:06 am | |
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| I'm a new admin on another forum that had a relatively large | |
| member base, but no set rules or procedures in place. I helped | |
| the other admins write the rules and established one in | |
| particular that has been accepted by the vast majority (99.9% of | |
| people) but we're seeing a couple of vocal complaints about it. | |
| When it was implemented we did an explanatory admin thread about | |
| it and went into great detail, bending over backward to give | |
| very thorough explanations of the rule and why it was put into | |
| place. | |
| However, I'm now seeing a couple of complaints both on the new | |
| rule's thread and within on-topic posts. I have seen everything | |
| from "Rule X is stupid" to "Rule X seems arbitrary" to "I don't | |
| know what the mods were thinking." Our message board is themed | |
| squarely around teapots and we have another rule that basically | |
| says if your post doesn't at least tangentially involve tea, | |
| teapots, the history of teapots, etc. in some way then it's | |
| subject to removal. I've been tempted to remove these types of | |
| posts because they're getting off-topic, but haven't because the | |
| comments sections haven't devolved into complaints about Rule X | |
| and everyone else seems to want to stay on topic. | |
| So my question is, what kind of "image" does it present if I'm | |
| a) no longer answering private messages or comments on the Rule | |
| X thread; and b) not removing posts that complain about Rule X? | |
| We want to present a united image as admins and aren't being | |
| wishy-washy or apologizing for the rule, but I also don't want | |
| to be seen as militantly monitoring, policing, and deleting | |
| discussions. Does anyone else have a better or different | |
| approach? | |
| #Post#: 61851-------------------------------------------------- | |
| Re: I implemented a new rule on my message board and it's slight | |
| ly unpopular. How to respond to complaints? | |
| By: VorFemme Date: December 22, 2020, 10:49 am | |
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| I have been there, done that, and muted or even booted & banned | |
| more than a few (defined as more than a dozen) people over that | |
| on a forum that I've been moderating for a bit over a year | |
| now... | |
| #Post#: 61855-------------------------------------------------- | |
| Re: I implemented a new rule on my message board and it's slight | |
| ly unpopular. How to respond to complaints? | |
| By: vintagegal Date: December 22, 2020, 11:44 am | |
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| I mod on a portion of a large forum and we have a strict rule | |
| against discussing moderation. Any complaints can be handled | |
| through DM's. | |
| #Post#: 62158-------------------------------------------------- | |
| Re: I implemented a new rule on my message board and it's slight | |
| ly unpopular. How to respond to complaints? | |
| By: iolaus Date: December 30, 2020, 5:59 am | |
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| Either delete or respond with a cut and paste 'please see pinned | |
| admin rules post for explanation' (or whatever you called it | |
| If they keep complaining PM with a 'either accept the rules of | |
| the community or leave said community' - and if they do it again | |
| ban them | |
| Though if there are a LOT of unpopularity with the rule you may | |
| have to look at if that rule is a right fit for that community | |
| #Post#: 62167-------------------------------------------------- | |
| Re: I implemented a new rule on my message board and it's slight | |
| ly unpopular. How to respond to complaints? | |
| By: VorFemme Date: December 30, 2020, 9:28 am | |
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| People don't always like any change, whether for the better or | |
| the worse - "different" will be eyed suspiciously for a while. | |
| And the newer members, who don't remember the "before" don't | |
| understand the long term members complaining about the "new | |
| rules" because they never saw or operated under the old rules. | |
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