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                             The Funeral, Part I

The viewing started at 6:00 pm. We arrived at the funeral home (in Marianna,
Florida [1]) at 5:45 pm and as we're being lead back to the viewing room, the
funeral director asked if we were family. Gregory said that we were friends
of the family and had driven up from Ft. Lauderdale [2]. The director then
regretfully told us that only family was allowed in at this time and that the
viewing didn't start for another hour.

Shocked, I looked at my cell phone, and sure enough, it read 4:45 pm. We were
not only an hour early, but in the Central Time Zone [3]. [The zone runs down
the middle of the Apalachicola River [4] and apparently, we all missed the
memo when crossing over it.]. We killed a little over an hour then headed
back to the viewing.

I had only met Joe Sr. once or twice for very brief moments of time, but from
listening in to many of the conversations I got a feel for the man. His death
wasn't unexpected, as it came at the end of several years of fighting cancer,
and the atmosphere there was more relief over his suffering being over than
the sadness of a sudden, inexplicable death. There was no wailing and
gnashing of teeth over his death, but a huge gathering of friends and family
offering fond memories of Joe Sr.

[I guess you're taking our picture …] [5]
[6]
Left to right: Kyle (Joe's son), Kelly (Joe's wife), Keener (Joe's first name
I've known him as Joe as long as I've known him) and just some guy, sitting
in front of the fire.

[No, Gregory's lap isn't on fire] [7]
[8]
Left to right: Kurt, Gregory sitting before the fire on the back porch.


Joe extended us an invitation to the family farm (in Cottondale [9], a few
miles west of Marianna) for food (which was excellent—I've never had fresh
roast beef, and by “fresh” I mean “it was butchered yesterday”) and
conversation (again excellent, and mostly around a fire on the back porch).

[1] http://www.cityofmarianna.com/
[2] http://ci.ftlaud.fl.us/
[3] http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/North_American_Central_Time_Zone
[4] http://www.nwfwmd.state.fl.us/recreation/apalachicolariver.html
[5] gopher://gopher.conman.org/IPhlog:2009/01/22/thumb.kyle-kelly-keener-me.jpg
[6] gopher://gopher.conman.org/IPhlog:2009/01/22/kyle-kelly-keener-me.jpg
[7] gopher://gopher.conman.org/IPhlog:2009/01/22/thumb.kurt-gregory.jpg
[8] gopher://gopher.conman.org/IPhlog:2009/01/22/kurt-gregory.jpg
[9] http://www.city-data.com/city/Cottondale-Florida.html

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