Subj : Introverts and Extroverts
To   : ryan
From : mseifert
Date : Fri Feb 12 2021 11:19 am

-> ryan said to mseifert <-

ry> One interesting aspect to all of this is that I notice very extroverted
ry> people are suffering pretty bad, and I'm hopeful this helps develop
ry> empathy for introverts. In modern history, the roles have basically
ry> been reversed where the world has felt more or less designed to suit
ry> extroverts and introverts have been suffering in silence.

I doubt it will foster empathy, hover it may cause some of us introverts to
change.  I like people but value my privacy and space.  But, as of late have
felt very alone and isolated.  I recently thought to myself that if this
contines for another year, I'll be out hugging random people when this is all
over.

ry> My gf is very extroverted but she's adapted well enough for now. The
ry> only thing is that she talks my ear off all hours of the day and I
ry> can't get any time to myself. But I love her and it's ok and she knows
ry> when I'm shutting down lol.

I think this is effecting the poor extroverts the worst.  As for you and your
GF.. hang in there, being her rock during all this will only serve to
strengthen your relationship.  Providing, the 'cabin fever' doesn't cause one
or both of you to turn against the other.

ry> But I see complaints of folks that struggle to work when stuck home
ry> alone and thrive in an office environment. I'm very hopeful now they
ry> know how different these worlds can be and that people like me will
ry> have more respect when it comes to telework requests in the future.

I was sent to work from home due to downsizing before the pandemic, and some of
my co-workers didn't cope well. Me, I handle being on my own pretty well.  It's
just me and my cat 'Buddy' and he's starting to get tired of my clingy-ness.
So, I'm back in the land of BBS's to get some human interaction.

I think if companies notice that working from home was a successful move you
may not see a full scale reversal once this is over..

Also why does pandemic and panda-medic make me laugh...



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