Subj : Re: BBS People
To   : Arelor
From : mseifert
Date : Sat Feb 06 2021 07:53 pm

)-> Quoting Arelor, who said to mseifert <-(:

Ar> Meh, I wish something like this had stuck while I was a kid so I could
Ar> have skipped a couple of years of presential school.

Ar> Everybody talking about letting kids socialize as if it was always
Ar> positive.

Ar> I have bad news: social interaction with random people may also get
Ar> people involved with the wrong sort of group. I know the standard
Ar> answer is "Kids need to meet the sucky individuals to grow too" which
Ar> is fine, but if your kid is put to pressure he may have to turn into
Ar> something you would not like in order not to break.

Ar> School shootings are popular for a bunch or reasons. I think one of the
Ar> reasons is that schools are great at making certains sorts of people
Ar> break.

Ar> Sorry for the pseudo-rant but this subject makes me boil.

Hey, I get it.. I was both a victim of peer pressure and bullyinhg as a kid
but, all in all the friendships I did make in those years have made it all
worth while.  The people who negatively impacted you are probably people who
didn't have solid social interactions when growing up. (I am not defending or
excusing their actions.)  One of the bullies I had to endure was the son of a
wife beating a-hole.  I feel sorry for him now, and how I handled him in the
end, but I do see you side.. and I still worry about how this pandemic will
effect the kids who become aware (2-3 years old) during it.. maybe they'll be
fine.. maybe not.


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