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What happens after ‘thoughts and prayers’? These religious leaders | |
have an answer | |
By Madeline Holcombe, CNN | |
Updated: | |
7:43 AM EDT, Fri August 29, 2025 | |
Source: CNN | |
Offering “thoughts and prayers” after a tragedy may sound | |
insufficient, said Father Chris Collins, a Jesuit priest and vice | |
president for mission at the University of St. Thomas in St. Paul, | |
Minnesota. | |
Minneapolis mayor Jacob Frey expressed a similar point of view on | |
Wednesday when a shooter fired through the windows of a church during | |
first week of class at Annunciation Catholic School. | |
“Don’t just say, ‘This is about thoughts and prayers right | |
now.’ These kids were literally praying,” Frey said at a press | |
conference on the scene. “They should be able to go to school or | |
church in peace without the fear or risk of violence, and their parents | |
should have the same kind of assurance.” | |
Politicians and public figures often offer their thoughts and prayers | |
in the aftermath of tragedy –– particularly . And the phrase can | |
quickly spark contentious debate, as many argue that the phrase is just | |
a way to shut down conversation when very little has been done to | |
prevent further American gun violence. The phrase has become a commonly | |
understood meme for | |
“The unfortunate thing is, thoughts and prayers that get said all | |
over the place and very often becomes, in some ways, something that’s | |
thrown out there to make it seem like you care when you don’t really | |
care,” said the Very Rev. Sarah Hurlbert, dean of the Cathedral of | |
All Souls, an Episcopal church in Asheville, North Carolina. The | |
cathedral was inundated and extensively damaged by floodwaters from | |
Hurricane Helene in September 2024. | |
However, in the immediate aftermath of something horrible, when | |
everyone feels helpless, prayer can be a good place to go at the start, | |
said Collins. And depending on how you understand them, prayers can be | |
a powerful tool in times of difficulty, religious leaders know. | |
Connection to one another | |
When Collins arrived at Church of St. Peter Claver in Minneapolis after | |
this week’s shooting at Annunciation, he found people in the pews, | |
sitting together in silent prayer. | |
“It was beautiful –– really so simple, but beautiful,” he said. | |
“In the moment, what else are you going to do? What else can you do, | |
but be together and let God be with us too?” | |
Connecting with God in that way can be one of the primary intentions of | |
prayer, as well as connecting with a feeling of love, said Rev. Janet | |
Maykus, transitional senior pastor of the United Christian Church in | |
Austin, Texas. | |
“The idea is that we believe that we are all connected, and that as | |
we lift prayers for other people… we’re made more expansive, we are | |
able to hold things that we didn’t know we could hold emotionally,” | |
she said. | |
To say, “I am praying for you,” can also be like a promise to be | |
present with another person in their struggle, said Dr. Shelly Rambo, | |
professor of theology at Boston University. | |
One form of prayer could translate to meaning, “I promise to stay | |
with you and hold you in all of the hope that faith claims,” Rambo | |
said. | |
That promise can mean acknowledging a situation as terrible and | |
important, and the person praying can serve as someone else standing by | |
someone who is in a hard situation, she added. | |
Pledging to stay with another person in your thoughts and hold | |
compassion and hope for them is even more powerful when it is followed | |
by commitment, Rambo said. | |
‘Prayer works because it changes us’ | |
Different faiths –– and even different denominations or sects of | |
the same faith –– may have different understandings of the purpose | |
of prayer. | |
For some people, praying is asking God to change something in the | |
world. But Maykus of the United Christian Church in Austin, Texas, | |
offers a different perspective. She preaches to her congregation that | |
prayer is intended to change a person internally. | |
“The power of prayer is like meditation or something else. It’s the | |
more I pray, the more I’m changed,” she said. | |
When she prays for people who are unhoused, Maykus said, she doesn’t | |
think God will create more places for people to go. Instead, she finds | |
that the prayer draws attention to what is important to her, and she | |
starts to think about what she can do to create the changes she hopes | |
to see. | |
“I believe prayer works because it changes us,” said Rev. Shannon | |
Johnson Kershner, senior pastor at Central Presbyterian Church in | |
Atlanta. “What prayer can do is give us the ability to see not just | |
the news stories but the people who are actually involved in them, and | |
to figure out how we can be present.” | |
“Prayer gives us the vision to see everyone as God’s beloved,” | |
Kershner said, “and then it motivates us into acting that out in the | |
way we live our lives and the way we use our resources.” | |
Pairing prayer with action | |
For people who do not practice a prayer tradition, offering “thoughts | |
and prayers” can sound like no one is going to do anything about the | |
hardship or wrongdoing. | |
That doesn’t have to be the case. “Actually, I think that the | |
biblical understanding of those things is that that means that we’re | |
required to act out of it,” Kershner said. | |
Prayer can be important before taking action to solve a problem, | |
Hurlbert said. It can be helpful to take a moment and ground yourself | |
in compassion to make sure you are being attentive to the person who | |
needs it, she added. | |
“If you skip one and go to the other, we mess up very quickly,” | |
Hurlbert said. | |
Conversely, praying without actually getting involved or participating | |
in the community misses the opportunity for healing, she added. That | |
can look like meals, childcare or even continuing to check in | |
emotionally with those directly affected. | |
“Thoughts and prayers are really important, but God also gave us | |
brains and ways to use our bodies for service,” Kershner added. | |
At a Wednesday press conference, Matthew DeBoer, Annunciation’s | |
principal, called on the community to work toward no other family | |
having to go through the loss of children to a shooting again. | |
“There is an African proverb that says, ‘When you pray, move your | |
feet,’” he said. “I beg you, I ask you to please pray, but | |
don’t stop with your words. Let’s make a difference and support | |
this community, these children, these families, these teachers –– | |
never again can we let this happen.” | |
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