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Stardate: 20211229.1627 | |
Location: Living Room | |
Input Device: Gemini PDA | |
Audio: Leonard Cohen - You Want It Darker (on white vinyl) | |
Visual: Xmas tree, musical instruments, restored radio cabinet. | |
Emotional State: Introspective | |
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Usually this time of year, like most, I like to reflect back on the | |
past 12 months. Sometimes it's a simple list, sometimes it is a | |
total core dump. This year, the Japanese concept of "Naikan" crossed | |
my path and I found it interesting so I will be using something | |
similar to this method this year. | |
According to gopherpedia:[1] | |
"Naikan (Japanese: 内観, ) is a structured method f | |
self-reflection developed by Yoshimoto Ishin (1916–1988) in the | |
1940s. The practice is based around asking oneself three questions | |
about a person in one's life: | |
* What did I receive from this person? | |
* What did I return to this person? | |
* What troubles, worries, unhappiness did I cause this person?" | |
Since I am so quick to forget these day, it is good that I keep a | |
journal. There are also the pictures that I have taken, text and | |
voice calls on my phone, and any social media entries (gopher, | |
mastodon, matrix, etc.) that I can reference. | |
I don't mean for this type of reflection to be any kind of | |
exhaustive record keeping of my past year, rather, just an overall | |
view of my past 12 months in this human existence. It also helps | |
me to think of others instead of being so wrapped up in myself. | |
I encourage any of you in SDF-land or out there in the greater | |
gopherspace to take a time out and reflect on the past year and those | |
who we have connected with. Perhaps even try the 3 simple Naikan | |
questions. 2021 will soon be a thing of the past and will never | |
happen again, except for what we can recall in our memories. | |
Have a safe and prosperous New Year to all of you | |
dambgudcyberchatterz out there in the gophersphere, SDF, aNONradio, | |
or where ever you receive this transmission! | |
[1] gopher://gopherpedia.com/0/Naikan | |
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