Great thoughts. Had a good raver friend in the mid 90's and
  while Exstacy got him started, once he dropped the drugs, he
  continued with the PLUR concept and is happily married leading a
  happy life. We're not in contact but once a year - but he
  embraced it totally and I always had the highest respect for him
  in the way he treated everybody with respect, kindness - and he
  didn't have in/out circles - everybody was his friend in his
  mind. Man, now I have to see if he's on facebook. "