Me too, and yes you can.* I used to think there wasn't an
algorithm for dealing with family but there is.* I'll write it
in my own pseudo-code, and I'll use the forbidden GOTO. IF
FAMILY = UNDER YOUR SOLE RESPONSIBILITY, GOTO END: ELSE IF
FAMILY = SIBLING AND/OR COUSIN AND/OR PARENT AND/OR AUNT-UNCLE
AND/OR GRANDPARENT AND/OR OTHER HUMANS OF SUCH GENERATIONS THEN
SAY WHATEVER YOU CAN TO GET BREATHING ROOM FROM THEIR EMOTIONAL
MANIPULATION WITHOUT STRAYING TOO FAR FROM THE TRUTH, BUT ENOUGH
FOR PARTIAL EFFECTIVENESS IN MANAGING YOUR EMOTIONAL STATE.
Think "You're not the boss of me!" Say "Yes, I'm making great
progress!" Show Them A Something (Variable Undefined) END: Print
"If they are your sole responsibility, they're your kids or
otherwise your responsibility.* (Multi)(Uni)verse = Honesty.
However, you are not responsible to hold up to the full
expectations of anyone not in the category of
fully-dependent-on-you, unless you choose to." END