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š§µ So many commentators are saying that straight men are voting for fascism b… |
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The fundamental difference between the two seems to be the direction of the des… |
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@Patricia As an obvious male: I've met plenty of #1, but I don't think … |
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I donāt know if these sound right, Iāve struggled with a whole lot of thing… |
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To me though, they both seem to stem from a similar place, the difference seems… |
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Just off the top of my head it feels like this is partially what has hit millen… |
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I have joked to my kids that when grownups sound angry they are usually scared,… |
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@Patricia I think the broken promises of Neoliberalism are the root cause of th… |
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We clearly have a collective problem if men are so sad they are willing to tear… |
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@Patricia I think this again comes back to the self-perpetuating nonsensical (s… |
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@Patricia I don't think they're sad; They're angry and "fix th… |
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But letās assume this is the case. What seems to cause this clash is the cont… |
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To a certain extent I can understand. When I was a teenager I was bombarded wit… |
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I guess this is a very long winded way for me to get to a āquestionā which … |
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@PatriciaA point about 2: I think they feel sad, but some are still expressing … |
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Are men over-enacting what they think masculinity looks like as a defense mecha… |
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So basically, to men, how can we help? What do you really need? |
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@Patricia I think those two are basically the same. Patriarchy fails men becaus… |
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@lpwaterhouse oh wow, I think pretty much all men I know who are in either are … |
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@Patricia I keep thinking this has something to do with how we don't have t… |
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@Patricia @sotolf I think thatās a part of it someone once said there are thr… |
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@Patricia I don't know either, but I was listening to a Behind The Bastards… |
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@krans can you describe a bit what the promise of neoliberalism looked like phy… |
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@Patricia Well, we voth obviously get a picture tailored to the audience... Goo… |
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@matus_chochlik I have begun to think that these strict gender divides are dang… |
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@Patricia we're trained (well it doesn't take in all of us for reasons)… |
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@lpwaterhouse maybe the loudest ones, but when 50% of men under 30 are voting a… |
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@Patricia I'm not sure that growing up people (not just men) know what do t… |
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@Patricia *shrug* I'm not in the US, but here young men that vote fascist a… |
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@Patricia you cannot overestimate the role of racism in the state of US politic… |
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@fuzzykb youāre right, but then I wonder, would people feel more generous if … |
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@Patricia That's likely one factor. I've also seen men in rural areas t… |
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@syklemil oh thatās interestingā¦ because the pandemic was that on steroids … |
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@BenAveling @sotolf that is also what @syklemil is bringing up here https://sna… |
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@Patricia My personal take on the false promises of #Neoliberalism:- Monotonica… |
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@audunmb so how can we create a context or story where men feel they belong? |
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@syklemil @Patricia @sotolf yes. Cars are a classic example of the contradictio… |
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@Patricia Well I mean I constantly fail, I often feel sad, but that doesn't… |
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@sotolf I have many times felt like the space for being āa manā is a lot mo… |
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@projectgus I just wrote a reply on that before I saw yours!https://social.viva… |
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@Patricia @sotolf have you looked at the evolution of men's fashion? it'… |
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@mensrea oh wow, thank goodness it was easy š |
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@Patricia @sotolf My experience as a man (which is very out-of-date: I'm 60… |
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@Patricia @sotolf so maybe the thing to do more is to express out loud that it … |
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@mensrea @sotolf exactly! |
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@Patricia @sotolf That's primarily on men for reinforcing those expectation… |
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@cstross @sotolf I can only imagine, I have never been or felt very feminine, b… |
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@Patricia As a straight man can we just wait a sec before we try to spend time … |
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@Patricia Yeah, I don't know, most of the time it feels like it's somet… |
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@sotolf very! Be you, and hopefully some other person trying to figure out how … |
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@Patricia It is a good idea to get men involved positively, I just think a lot … |
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@Patricia @sotolf our younger son had in the last couple of years (very) long t… |
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@matus_chochlik @sotolf thatās such a beautiful thing he did! š |
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@Patricia are you familiar with ShoeOnHead on YouTube? She's been analyzing… |
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@alexboly Iāll have a look! |
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@Patricia sure. Populism seems to take hold more strongly during harder times, … |
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@Patricia @sotolf it was one of the things that COVID helped to kick-start, but… |
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@lyda there is quite a lot of data suggesting that straight men arenāt all al… |
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@matus_chochlik @sotolf hairbrushing is rough |
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@lpwaterhouse @Patricia I think that's because those who direct the negativ… |
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@m @Patricia Possibly, yes, but among my male aquantainces, colleagues, etc. I … |
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@lpwaterhouse @m Iām wondering if men are more inclined to share those feelin… |
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@Patricia if it's ok, here's a perspective on some things i think are m… |
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@Patricia @m Also possible. Though I'd be extremely wary of the "Look,… |
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@Patricia I think many men turn on women for the same reason people turn on imm… |
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@Patricia Not sure. I'm a man, but I'm not having any of these issues. … |
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@BenAveling @Patricia @sotolf It's also the travel patterns. Women generall… |
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@BenAveling @Patricia @sotolf And while a lot of male clubs have had certain dy… |
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@BenAveling @Patricia @sotolf ā¦ this reminds me I've kind of been meaning… |
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@syklemil I see the importance of 3rd spaces. I don't see the importance of… |
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@Patricia @mensrea @sotolf and then a lot of women's fashion is in turn fem… |
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@Patricia I think we also need to acknowledge that some people have a lust for … |
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@Patricia @projectgus something i've been thinking about recently is, you k… |
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@Patricia @sotolf well, yeah, I used to have hair almost down to my kidneys, so… |
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@Patricia Iām just not buying it. Sure, there are men who match this descript… |
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@Patricia @cstross @sotolf Similarly, Iāve never been or felt very masculine.… |
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@Patricia Only sort of a man, but I was thinking about this recently as I was t… |
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@Patricia You reckon the men living in hereditary wealth situations are particu… |
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@Patricia @sotolf @recursive this general sort of thing is why thereās two se… |
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@alper Iāve read several studies over the last few years that just make sense… |
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@Catfish_Man @sotolf @recursive I think both feeling safe enough to do it and h… |
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@Patricia i would start this at a group level. many men feel that feminists are… |
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@Patricia and that can be based in "objective" reality (genuine failu… |
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@Patricia and i would add that feminism _is_ a threat to a certain idea of bein… |
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@bjoernstaerk I have often felt that we need a better word or concept, somethin… |
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@bjoernstaerk since Iām also nonbinary on the inside š I have never been s… |
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@Patricia I think we are fooling ourselves if we try to root the unsavoury and … |
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@einarwh yeah, but if 50 percent of 20-something men think fascism is great, Iļæ½… |
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@sass I didnāt mean to imply this was the whole reason or even the majority o… |
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@Patricia @alexboly Be aware that ShoeOnHead is a "the left left me" … |
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@pilum @alexboly I started watching one video and it ended in weird āslutsham… |
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@Patricia Ah ok. Understood. In terms of "what can we do for men". Ug… |
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@Patricia I don't think 50% of the population are sociopaths, but apparentl… |
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@Patricia As I see it, all the human traits are basically the same always. The … |
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@Patricia Through most of my life, I have lived in a world that has been quite … |
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@Patricia In a sense it should be unsurprising. If it could happen in 1930 Germ… |
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@Patricia Violence and cruelty can become normalized, accepted, even cheered up… |
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@Patricia I don't know the percentage of "natural fascists", but … |
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@Patricia Correction: they think theyād wear the boots *and* theyād actuall… |
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@Patricia I think in the long term younger women are becoming less vulnerable o… |
